I need counselings on my marriage. I have been married for 3 years. My husband is working out of town. I recently had miscarriage. From the time I am married I am facing issues with my in laws. And now it is high time. I feel unloved and unsupported from my husband. All the time only one thing runs in my mind that is to get away from him and his family as I do not see any future.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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This may be a tough call, nevertheless it has to be made. Whatever the decision please put in all the details properly in perspective and then consult someone you trust even if it is a friend and then spend some time in contemplation before deciding. Ideally, you should visit a counselor for help. If you are in any way impulsive, then it may reach a point of no return and regrets after that may not bring back the situation for a reconsideration. Marriages end up in divorce within two years for the following reason: sex, finance, and in-laws. Since these are present to some extent or the other, your marriage is threatened. After consulting the people mentioned above, you can inform your husband first about your decision and study the reaction. Then either he or you can convey this to the rest of his and your family. Be absolutely certain if you want to get out of the marriage. If there is any move to reconcile with your husband as a result of your action or decisions, it will be a welcome development but get a professional involved.  

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