Hi, Mai ek working unmarried girl hu. I am in relationship my friend jo ki last five years se hai. Humari family ko bhi pata hai is bare mei. Lkin humari yeh relationship bhut negative phase mei hai. Ushi vjh se humari family Shadi ko lkar negative hai. Still hum dono ke dushre ke sath, fight bhut hoti hai lkin Ek dushre ke Bina reh bhi nhi pate. Mere office mei mera ek colleague h jisko mere is relationship ke bare mei pta hai also the negative aspect I shared with him. He was a married guy. When I join this organisation in 2013 he also joined. And he started liking me. At that time mera friend (jo hai relationship mei hai) woh ek sided tha, sirf mere friend ki taraf se, still I was with him, kyunki mai uski feeling ko hurt nhi Karna chahati thi, he was a true lover. Lkin jab mere colleague ne mujhe propose kiya I accepted. I also start liking him. Yeh baat mere friend ko pta tha, still he was with me. Mera colleague ko mere fried ke bare mei pta tha, woh mujhe usse alag rehne ko mana karta rha, Lkin mai uske sath thi, mujhe usko jhut bolna padhta tha. Yeh bhi soch thi ki mera colleague ke sath mera koi future nhi because he was married, islye Maine apne friend ka kabhi sath nhi chodha, Maine kabhi uski feeling hurt hone nhi di. Ek din mere colleague ne mujhe mere friend ke sath dekh liya, tab se usne mujhse cut off kar diya. He himself cut off. Us din se mai apne friend ke sath ho gye. I started loving my friend. Mere colleague se mera totally cut off ho gya tha. Lkin last year me and my colleague sath ek officially trip mei gye. He started talking me, usne khud baat ki, and also asked me about my friend. Ki shadi kab kar rahe ho. I said kar lungi, Lkin usko kya bolti I was not happy with him. Lkin yeh baat mere colleague ko pta tha. Phir jab mere colleague me pocha shadi ke liye I said everything, then he again said ki usko chod do, I said Ek dum se nhi chod sakti, Lkin I will try. Is beech mai apne friend ke sath bhut fight hoti thi, Lkin hum kabhi alag nhi ho paye and I said to my colleague ki ab mai apne friend ke sath nhi hu, jhut bola usko Lkin I was with him because mera future uske sath haii, today mere colleague ne mera cell phone dekha toh usko mere friend ki call mili, Then he again became panic over me just because mai apne friend ke sath hu .What should I do .Please help me?
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Pehle aap decide kariye aap ki priority kaun hai apka friend ya colleague. Then decide ki aap ko sach me aise relation me rehna hai jaha 70% fight and 30% dependancy hai. Shaadi ek bada decision hota hai soch samajh kar kisi se consult karke hi kare. Aap mujhe ya kisi psychologist se counseling karwa le.
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lybrate-user. Muje lagta hai agar aap jada confuse ho then face to face session ke liye aao. Because yeha itni badi writing ka jawaab dena thoda mushkil hai. Ya fir aap chat pe aao. Lybrate me chat options hai. Aapne jo itna sara likha uske jawaab me filhal mai ek baat bolti hu. You should be clear about who is your priority. Relationships are very sensitive. And you are quite mature. you can't satisfy everyone at the same time. Decide your priorities and stick to honesty to urself. I practice in Gurgaon also. You can visit there too to meet me.
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