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I am 20 years old . A girl asked me for sex with me. But I kissed and hugged her and do not sex with her went away from her. Few days after I said no to that and went to college.in college I'm not focusing on studies because it is the first time kissing a girl. I'm thinking asexually things in mind now. But I don't need think that sexual things right now. Because I wants to study well. Please advise me how to forgot or control from it. I want to study hard while reading books my mind diverting to bad thinking. Some times I am loosing my control and doing masturbation. Please advise to stop everything and concentrate on studies hard. Because in this year I want to study MBA work hard in studies. Please sir your advice is most valuable to me. I wants to forgot everything of sexual things. Only studies. Please help me for that.
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If you suppress your desire then you feel unable to control your desire because you always thinking to avoid thinking about that girl. You start to think that when you meet that's girl, you hug and talk with her not avoiding. This thinking helps to you widraw bad thinking. Second thing you give priority to your studies. You remember this when you avoid any thing then that avoiding point get more active in your mind. This is natural when young couple comes in contact this attraction will happen.
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Dear sir Though in young age it is very common, but if it is uncotrollable consult psychologist or psychiatrist.
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