Hi It might be a trival matter but I need a solution for this without hurting anybody at home. Whenever we have guests coming in with a gift which contains mixture, sweets etc My mother in law passes it on to my helper. Last time I conveyed it to her that I am fond of specific things and I want it to be left for me it eat. So next time she asked me to keep what I wanted. I did that and made a separate box for my helper. She again forced my helper to take out things from the shelf which I had kept for myself for him to take it. Though I finish what I keep for myself and it is never thrown away. When I told her she said you can buy it from the market if you want more. But I don't like her this particular attitude. How do I convey it to her to stop doing it. Without hurting her. Thanks.