Hello doctor's, my husband by profession business man, we married almost 10 years and we have 2 baby. Our sexual life very good but last 4 month we did sexual intercourse weekly one or two days in a week, Before we did 4 days approx. I want to sexual intercourse as like before. Please give some solutions. My husband age 46, height 5.10, weight 73, he not take any kind of medicine and alcohol, cigarette. Me use birth control pills some months. Please give some advice about.

Dr. Sunil GuptaPsychiatrist12yrs exp

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Dear Ms. lybrate-user, I went through your query in detail and can understand what you must be going through. Many couple's find that after a few years, the frequency of sex goes down. There are multitude of reasons for the same. Over time, any partner can gradually lose interest in sex. I also noticed that you have mentioned your age to be 29 and your husband's to be 46. It is quite possible that the age difference might be contributing. However, in your case, since its only 4 months, the best way forward will be to talk to your husband directly about it. Being a businessman, he just might have become slightly busier or may be under stress. But you will never know until you talk to him. If required, both of you can meet a psychiatrist and undergo therapy sessions aiming to boost your sex life. I do hope that everything falls into place for you soon. Best wishes.  

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