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Since birth of my child, our sex life has come to an end Everytime I ask for sex my wife denies for the fear of getting impregnated again despite making her aware of contraception. To be honest; watching porn was the only relief I got but later I seem to have thoughts about sex and female body images all the time and was worried of what if it may turn into a compulsion or obsession and stopped watching porn however the thoughts of sex or images never ceased. I try my best to keep me religious and concentrate on divinity however it fails. I am really worried since I have a baby daughter. How to control this. Kindly help.
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It would be highly un-intelligent to concentrate on religion to counter sexual thoughts. It will drive you crazy. Your burning desire not fulfilled is leading to this frustration and sexual chain of thoughts, do not control it, you cannot your wife needs counseling. Persuade her into that, tell frankly how it is affecting you. Remember what is happening to you is not abnormal, do not panic or feel guilty, it will magnify the problem.
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