one person treated me badly. That incident is getting reminded in my every now and then. Because of which iam not able to concentrate on my job and daily routine. what should I do to over come this problem.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist48yrs exp

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Your obsession is unnecessary. You must quickly get rid of that experience, and either talk to that person and tell him what you are going through or talk to a counselor to sort it out. That person may have had good intentions when he treated you like that. If you silently suffer, you will feel more and more dejected and become terribly dysfunctional. When we give such incidents so much of power, they will affect our self-esteem, self-confidence and our self-image. You stand to lose too much around a single incident. You have made yourself very vulnerable. Go out and meet people, visit a gym regularly, do some personality development courses, study more and equip yourself to such an extent that you give a boost to your confidence. That incident will then fade away into oblivion forever. 

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