How to identify is wife hymen broken. We married since last three years. We are trying intercourse but due to wife tight vagina, small hole I can't insert her inside. I am confused. Her hymen still not broken. Recently we met sexologist and gynecologist they told my wife having vaginismus problem. Is this is the reason to me not to penetrate inside her? Please suggest how can I penetrate inside her vagina. We are trying for baby.