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Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surge...read more

Ayurveda•Noida
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Ms. lybrate-user
As you asked about your problems related to your sex enjoyment in the age of 15/16 through a orgasms is first time was accepted but repeatedly sex enjoyment before 18 is not right dicision. It will create problems in your family life as you had enjoyed sex with many.
I would like to advise you to stop it and try mentally peacefulness by diverting your mind towards physical and psychological health, creating exercises and meditation.
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Hello sir. Yesterday I was sitting in the library and studying. Then all of a sudden I don't know from where a thought came in my mind that whether I am straight or not. From childhood I always fantasize about sex, how it would be like, even when I watched any youth show or love movie I always thought even i'll have a beautiful story like this. I didn't have any sexual experience or any boyfriends. But ya I do have crush on boys and I sometimes felt shivers by their touch. But I don't know whats wrong. Actually a girls dupatta brushed me and I felt a warmth like feeling .There are no sexual fantasies. But can dis happen. Can sexuality change at this age. I don't want dis. I wanna have a normal life. Yesterday I even read some sex stories on Wattpad but did not feel the same throbbing down below which I used to feel. Well whenever I watched porn or read stories like that after a long time I used to have throbbing sensation or a wetness. But nothing happened yesterday. But even the thought of lesbian sex scares me. It feels weird. Please help me. Actually I am preparing for an entrance exam. I used to watch these youth shows but to controlyself and to devote more time to studie. But a few days back I was really tired and frustrated so I watched all the episodes. I had done dis many times since 10 years. Broken his swear many times. I liked all dose lovey dovey scenes on the shows and couldn't stop myself from watching them my quality. I may sound maniac but this is how I am feeling. Every another day now my mind get occupied by any stupid days and my time gets all wasted. And dis stupid lesbian thought.

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MBBS

Sexologist•Gurgaon
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Hi lybrate-user it's conman thing, Now you are young and matured sexually ,mentally, physically so it's attraction, it's sign and symptoms you young, for your study you start yoga and meditation and physical exercise 40 to 50 minutes daily morning and evening, and control your mind for more information consult privately.
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Psychologist•Palakkad
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Dear lybrate user. I can understand. Don't get confused. SEMEN COLOUR, QUANTITY AND THICKNESS changes according to physical condition and sexual intercourse / masturbation timing and related mental and physical conditions. Therefore, don't think too much about the thickness or quantity of sperm. If you want to know the quality of sperm, get your sperm checked for that. For Healthy Sperm, Eat More Vitamins.(Deficiencies in vitamin A have been linked to sluggish sperm and lowered fertility) Minera...more
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Don't worry, its very common problem in this age. First of all you have to make you busy in some work or studies or else you can join gym also and avoid watching porn video .Do meditation for mental strength daily to increase your focus and willpower towards work. Slowly and steadily, you will definitely. For more suggestion you can consult with us on Lybrate personally.
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BAMS, PG Diploma (Sexual Therapy), PG Ce...read more

Sexologist•Kolhapur
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Over sexual excitement ke karan aisa hota hai medicinal 1-- Picric acid 6X (homeopathic remedy) 10-----------10 drops with water other 1-- life goal per focus 2-- good friend circle 3-- avoid watching porn 4-- avoid reading sex article 5-- Dharmic book's reading 6-- meditation.
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Asked for male, 33 years old from Mumbai
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Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surge...read more

Sexologist•Delhi
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You can have sex with her. Your baby is 6 months old now. There is no issue. For more suggestion, you can consult with us on Lybrate personally.
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Psychiatrist•Chennai
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Nothing worn enjoying with aunties, if the relationship is consensual.You can even give her a child if she wishes. Some men like big breasts, some like medium or even small ones. Nothing wrong. Dont feel guilty after sperm ejaculation, it is normal. All the best.
Asked for male, 26 years old from Mangalore
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M.A. Psychology, PHD

Psychologist•Pune
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You may have your close women relatives having same fetchers, if you are having same emotions while seeing them it means you are having psychological disorder and its serious so immediately consult psychiatrist and start treatment.
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Sir I am 28 year old. I had no sexual power since my birth. Because I understood this as a wrong. I hate sexuality from my birth. My friend suggest me to. Watch porn videos, or porn message. I don't try to. Do this. But they all leave me. Then I now started watching and reading this. After 2 years sexuality increased too. Much as my sexuality increase my mind concentrate towards porn videos and message. And I can't stopping my self from doing this. I try to not to do so, then I feels like a current in my mind and tip of the penis, And then I needed to watch this. Please sir I want to concentrate my mind to the study not to this. Those who suggest me, they all have a job. But I have no job at the moment and now they are not asking me for a with. I feels shameless and I hate myself for my deeds. Is there any medicine to get control all over these.

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Homeopath•Pune
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Compulsive use of the internet for porn can interfere with daily life and your relationships, leaving you feeling ashamed. If you notice porn having a negative impact on your life but find yourself having difficulty cutting it out, you may need to go to greater lengths to get your problem under control. By replacing your negative behavior with positive ones, you can beat this habit.
Understand healthy sexuality. Healthy sexuality recognizes that sexualit...more
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MBBS

General Physician•Mumbai
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Just go to the loo and pass urine and stop watching porn videos and spend some quality time with your family and friends and get your self involved in some kind of work
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