Hi, I am married with one child. But since married we are facing some problems. We are ferocious each other. My wife didn't believe me. When I am at home we are getting quarrel at the peak level. Now we have been decided that we separate. But our baby loved our so much. Pls help us
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That is indeed unfortunate that you have seen a difficult marriage right from the start. When 2 people get married, they bring different ideas, thoughts, values, beliefs, culture and priorities with them under the same roof. This is often the cause for friction between couples. Yet marriage also brings two people in close contact where they can form a team and pool their strengths and resources to overcome challenges in life. This would indeed need a lot of understanding, sacrifice, love, communication, compromise, trust, respect from both sides to be able to live together harmoniously. Both of you can work on your marriage not only for your child's sake, but also for your own sake, because wherever there is love, there are expectations and there is bound to be some misunderstandings because of that. If you can identify the reasons over which you disagree, then both of you can slowly work your differences out. Otherwise, you have the option of seeking divorce, which may be practical but very unpleasant experience for all of you.
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Dear Mr.Amreesh. There is always a readon behind a cause.You must first try to find where the problem lies and then only yoiu can find the solution. As you mentioned your wife doe not believe you, why so. Try to create trust between both of you. I'm glad that you are seeking guidance from professionals which shows your interest to keep this bond. Breaking a relationship does not need any effort whereas keeping a relationship takes lot of efforts. I would suggest that try to reason it out and solve your problrms with patience and communication with your wife. Please look at the positives in your relationship and surely there are. List down 10 GOOD THINGS AND 10 BAD about your bond or about each other. Its not a theorotical approach its very much practical. Write down why would you want this relationship and why not. Then think about it by weighing the plus n minus you will get your answer. Divorce is easy but working out your bond is difficult. Don't try easy path because difficult path leads to amazing outcome. I am sure you would try this else you are most welcome to get further guidance. Thanks. Wish you luck n patience. Dr.Sapna Zarwal
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Everyone has to work to build and maintain the relationships. Marriage is very different than other form of relationships. special efforts are required to save and strengthen the relationship. Both men and women has to put efforts to understand and empathize with each other's feelings. Men and women think, feel and behave over the same issue. Many of us fail to understand other's emotions which often becomes the cause for fights and quarrels. Try to put yourself in her role and try to understand her feelings. Help her to understand your thoughts and emotions. Clear communication with no impulsive reactions is the key to rebuild your relationship. Look at your problem from the third person's perspective. Invest your energy in searching different options to resolve your issue rather than blaming yourself or your partner. Fresh mind always think positive and constructive. So relax and refresh your mind. --
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