I am 23 years old, I tend a lot towards gay but some times I realise that it is not good. I watch porn a lot and masturbate many times. I feel like doing it and I am a virgin and feel like having sexual contact with some one and I feel very odd sometimes. I am not able to come out that. Some times I get pain in pennis and my erection of it is very short and I ejaculate within a minute as I start. My friend suggested me that these habits aren't good. Please help me to come out of these and even I am an ocd patient and if I want to study or finish some work will not happen in the time that I have allotted and I always postpone it and even I feel insecure about my complexity as I look black and I am over weighted and I don't know how to come out with these problems.

Dr. Surbhi AgrawalGeneral Physician12yrs exp

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Sexual orientation cannot be change and as this is not a disorder, so do not worry about its treatment. But it is commonly associated with anxiety, depression, adjustment disorder, self harm and isolation because of social complication as you must have been facing. As it is not a disorder according to medical science, no treatment available to change orientation. So stop accepting it as an illness and accept yourself as you are naturally. Also be aware of sexually transmitted disease and AIDS as it is very common with homosexuality because of unprotected relations. Final message to you: Do not worry about god given orientation, work on acceptance of your natural sexual orientation and counseling from psychologist in much distress. I hope this information has been both informative and helpful for you. Wish you good health. 

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