My wife is very upset. She is too much sensitive. We had our marriage against our parents wish. Nothing is working for us. We got married in Jan, 2012 and have a kid (3.5 yrs). I am also getting very upset and getting difficulties to cop up with the fast life in metro city and to make my family happy. She is too much under pressure and its very difficult to convince her for anything for what she's not ready.Please tell.

Dr. Priya Sharma SabaradAyurveda10yrs exp

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Such problems are very common in marriage. First of all, stop stressing upon the fact that nothing is working out. The more you stress on this, the more stress you will feel. Be loving and gentle, despite your circumstances. Make your wife feel that you understand her and expect the same from her. Listen to her more than giving solutions to problems. The more she feels you understand her, more she will be willing to listen to you. Talk to her about her worries and fears and tell her that you both are together in good or bad and she is not alone. Try these things. Still if you feel its not working, you can take help of marriage counsellors. Good luck. 

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