I am a gay. I met a normal straight friend. I spoke to him about my introvert life. But he is selfish and hide many things. He said his girl friend and males friend left him. Due to his selfishness, I ignore him. Now he started hurting me by getting my friends as his own. Showing he is better than me in every activity. Is he a gay. How I ll escape? I told him only one thing that I had fun with only with one friend. He is scared to talk with males. Always with girls saying want to get marry. He act like a man. Pls advise we both will escape.

Dr. Rama Krishna RayavarapuPsychologist20yrs exp

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You accept you are gay. In this case very rare people are having this type of feelings. First you tell he is normal friend. Then his feelings are always normal. He changed intially later he changed. It shows he is not gay. Then neglect him. Or treat to him as a normal man friend. If you are not interested then ignore him. You do not have any right to change his ideas. Better to make normal male friend or ignore. Do not feel and do not think about him too much. If really likes you then he will come to your route. He changes ideas means he does not like your thoughts. Then ignore him. Love and make your own friends. Ok best wishes. 

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