My wife has very low sex drive for me it's opposite. I want to have sex often but it is not happening as my is not interested due to this I get more stress can't focus in work. I have a baby so I want to permanently stop erection so that I can focus on my life. Due to low sex drive I started watching porn and masturbate thinking me and my wife in the scenes which gave me immense pleasure now it become a habit I feel very depressed, no energy to focus on work. I feel stressed scared what if i'm fired for not focusing despite of all these thoughts still I could not stop myself. Anyway my sexual life is gone at least if I stop erecting permanently I can focus on my life. My wife has no problem if I don't erect. Any doctors who can help me please suggest me a medicine. I am 34 year old.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist15yrs exp

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Hello- a common complaint for many women is the loss of libido, or sex drive. Often this symptom is associated with menopause, but adult women of varying age groups have noted a decline in sex drive. At initial phase most women aren't aware of all the factors that affect libido, or the treatments available to help. Many are too embarrassed to share their worry with a physician. Patients are often told they are over stressed or depressed and given an antidepressant. Unfortunately, many medications actually make the problem worse. Many women note that stress is not the major issue, and that depression is really frustration that their libido is not in sync with that of their partner. However certain aphrodisiac herbs (in ayurveda) and specific tips can offer significant help for this condition and overall well-being.  

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