I'm 40 years of age and my wife is 36. Since our marriage I didn't get any sexual affinity on her; though I'm quite interested on other women. I used to masturbate regularly and I feel more comfort in doing that rather than intercourse. I get arousal in watching porn or other ladies but I become cold in case of my wife. Till last 11 years of our marriage we have never met physically for once. Can you help us out to have a successful intercourse; just for once so that we'll become truly married not pseudo married.