I am 29 yeras old. I am married for last 4 months. I love my wife. I knew her for last 1 year. Before our marriage I got a chat history of my wife with her previous lover. She didint tell me anything about this. I asked her she cried siad it was'nt her. But I somehow managed to marry her dont know why. But after marriage I have an obsession that she is lying to me in many cases. I know I am not completly sure. But still that incident haunts me. I have also developed an obsession like whenever I go out with her she used to look around other man. It hurts a lot though I know she loves me. I often hurt her scold her. Please help me in this regard I know this is just a phase but I am hurting her a lot. Please help. I wanted to give her space she works as a librarian in a college. But everything is in mess. Please help.