I'm 30 year old and recently started exploring sex with my partner. We tried penetrative sex, however I experienced extreme stinging pain whenever he tried to insert his penis. Though I was lubricated enough, it was a painful experience for me and we weren't able to do it. Kindly suggest what can be the possible causes for it.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist14yrs exp

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Hello- some women feel sharp stinging pains at the entry of their vagina and others feel the pain deep inside. Others hurt in their uterus or in other internal sexual organs. The fact is, no matter where you are feeling the pain, it is most assuredly related to the same cause. There are numerous causes of dyspareunia, including: inadequate lubrication vaginal infection or inflammation vaginismus tipped uterus injury & trauma fear of intimacy irritation or allergic reactions skin disorders psychological problems vestibulitis you and your partner may be able to minimize your dyspareunia with a few changes to your sex routine. Try being on top of your partner during sex. Women usually have more control in this position, so you may be able to regulate penetration to a depth that feels good to you. Communicate with your partner what feels good and what does not. Also, longer foreplay can help stimulate your natural lubrication and reduce the pain of penetration, as do synthetic lubricants.  

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