I am very much depressed by the behaviour of my wife. She is 49. Suddenly she had menoupause at the age 47. Her voice and behaviour is so harsh. Very arrogant with me, my mother and children. Some time so much affectionate and some time very harsh. Speak loudly. She is working so very dominant by act even and don' t care for. Some time even don' t cook and out of mood. A simple thing disturbs her. My mother is 80, behaves very rudely with her in my absence. Some time ask me for separation, and some time ask for a treat. Likes her relatives and ignore my relatives. What can be the solution? is this related to her menopause or just the normal behaviour with age? is there any remedy? is it a psychological problem? can psychiatrist work for? but the thing is I can' t find her depressed, she is very natural in her routine work at office and home even.