My husband is not interested in sex anymore. We are married since six years from last two years we had sex just 6 to 7 tyms. I am always sad becoz of this issue. I always crib in front of my husband abt ds but he is not able to understand my frustration. He says I already took viagra, and it did not work and says I do not want to go for any kind of medication. Just want to know if am correct or wrong as I keep on cribing and always remain sad abt ds and how I should overcome ds problem.

Dr. Sowmya K RPsychologistyrs exp

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Hi friend. Good that you are trying to understand ways to sort our issue rather than cribbing to yourself. 1. It could have been good if you should have shared the age of your husband. Because you are 33 and if he is above 40 there might be some changes that he is undergoing. 2. Men usually take it very sensitive that they have touched 40s, that the hair be coming white, and so on. When they get concerned with such issues they tend to show less interest in sex. 3. If not above 40 then you need to understand the issues and his feelings. Sometimes if he does not open up to you try to talk to him through someone else who is close to both of you. But try this only if you are comfortable in involving a third person. 4.last is just hand hold him and try to go in his way to get him back to you. Don't directly target on sex to him. Spend time more casually and bring to the topic of sex. If he is chatting good, being attached on all other ways except sex don't worry he is concerned more about future than other things including sex. 5. It may be hard to digest please try to find out if he is involved with some other woman so that he has lost interest in you. Whatever it may be please be bold and try to hand hold him with hope. Soon things will improve. Best wishes.  

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