I always worry about what people think of me. I get scared of social situations and always avoid going out so that I don't have to talk to people. People in college think I'm weird because I'm so quiet. Sometimes I also think about how meaningless life is. Seems like an exercise in futility. There's so many others like me out there. We all just want to be different and standout, don't we? That just seems foolish the more I think about it. We are all surprisingly mediocre. I don't let myself bond with people I should consider my close friends and family. It's always been difficult for me to do that ever since I was a child. This is just scraping the surface of the things that bother me. I think I need someone I can easily speak with.
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Hi lybrate-user, am impressed that you have analysed very well and yes there are so many people out there like you and for sure it is normal to be quite. Our mind may not allow us to speck out easily with strangers or even close colleagues, until we feel safe about them. It is easy for an extrovert personality, to open up and try exploring new friends and situations. Where as you are having a slight touch of introvert personality type (just cannot jump into conclusions, just by knowing your brief). You are almost near to your solution as you have decided to speak out! Now only thing left is ,who is the one? All the best for your journey of exploring yourself. Never lose your sport and positive spirit, which you have now.
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