My husband is very egoistic, too much selfish, controlling and manipulative person .But not for all. For me and my associates without any reason. He is highly educated ,charming person. He is very social and empathetic for his friends relatives associates and even for unknowns. Feel he has some emotional trauma in his childhood which he never shared with me and may be for that he is suffering from insecurities and as a result I am under his emotional abuse. For last 15 years I am tolerating this. Now it is unbearable. Please suggest what to do?