I am about to get married but I am getting very anxious day by day. I am not excited as others should be on their marriage being fixed. Neither am I that happy or elated. I like that guy ,he loves me and I like him too .He is a kind, genuine and nice natured guy. But I don't like his mom. I have met her a few times and I don't get great vibes from. I have always believed that I will treat my mom in law as my own mother and will share similar relationship with her as well. But here I don't see her being like my. Mom at all. I don't know if I will be able to like her as a person .Please suggest.

No person will be similar to any other person. Depending upon their environment, their emotional outlook people vary. Its rather a great thought to treat mom in law as your mother. But expecting that to be a criteria will not fetch you good in marraige life. You should rather bother about the person you are going to get married than others as after marraige the situation changes. You should have proper understanding with your soulmate that's more important. And its difficult to judge people in few meetings. You are going to start a new life be open to it think positive about people and accept everyone with open heart. There might be mismatches in opinion but just ignore and accept the person as they are rather wanting that person to your expectation. It will cause distress. Starting a new life with positivity and happiness will make you stay happy and comfortable in a relationship. All the best and have a wonderful married life.  

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