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Asked for male, 23 years old from Mumbai
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I am taking himalaya mentat to move on with my life after a girl is absolutely not interested in me. When she said no in 2016, till now, I am thinking of her all the time. So, to move on with my passion, I am taking himalaya mentat but it is not helping me even though I consulted a psychologist. What should I do? Should I increase the dosages? I am taking himalaya mentat because she said no (she gave priority to friendship over love) which made me score below average marks in semester exams, suicidal feelings due to thinking again and again of her even after clarification in the sense she said no and I feel that it is toxic to my passion/goal, then also I am thinking her all the time. I can't even concentrate on my passion. That's why I am taking himalaya mentat so that I should not get repetitive thoughts of what I clarified it means if I say no and she said no, then thoughts to marry her, thinking about her, etc comes to my mind which I don't want and that's why I am taking mentat.

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Psychiatrist•Dharwad
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I don't think himalaya mentat will help to a great extent in such situation. I understand that it causes great distress when se love is not reciprocated by your loved one. But, repetitive thinking about past is mainly due to unresolved questions .like .eg: am I not worthy of her? Am I not good enough? Why she din't like me.
All these things. And many more questions. What I could say is - when we give more importance for some one else's opinion about us than our own feelings and decisions .th...more
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Alternative Medicine Specialist•Bangalore
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Hi lybrate-user
it looks like you could have health anxiety. You feel you have heart disease even though the results are normal. Since how long have you been having this feeling that you have heart disease? To feel better consult a psychologist and explain about your fear and negative thoughts. A psychologist will help you manage anxiety and feel calm. It is possible to overcome health anxiety. Do not worry counseling sessions will help you.
Contact me for counseling session. Along with ...more
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Alternative Medicine Specialist•Bangalore
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Hi lybrate-user
your marriage has been fixed and it looks like you are going through pre-wedding jitters. It is normal to feel anxious when your marriage is fixed. You mentioned that you did not feel anything initially but now you are anxious and you want to cancel the marriage. The leg shaking could be due to anxiety. Consult a psychologist and talk about pre-wedding jitters. Talking to a psychologist will help you feel better. With a psychologist you can talk about what is making you feel ...more
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Homeopathy Doctor•Murshidabad
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Dear Lybrate user,
kindly note that if you are having sexual intercourse for the first time or if you are  having sexual relation after an interval of minimum 7 days then you are bound to discharge quickly during intercourse but that does not imply that you have any disease. It occurs due to loss of control of the muscles of penis. Normally it is seen that when a person does sexual intercourse daily he gains control over the muscles of penis & can stay longer during sex.
But if you notic...more
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Asked for female, 32 years old from Ranchi
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My 4 year old daughter is not speaking to anyone outside home since last one year. At home she is very active, speaks very well to us, very talkative. She is going to play outside home with friends since last 4 months but doesn't talk to them but play with them. No one heard her voice. My neighbors daily says to her why are you not speaking. We also tell her everyday to speak but she says I feel shy. She has taken admission in school in nursery class. Since last 3 days she is going to school but never speaks there, never eat her lunch, never drink water. Her teacher try to make her eat but she doesn't open her mouth. We are a nuclear family, husband,wife and daughter. I am working woman. My husband always fights with me. I scold my daughter many times when she did any mistakes. One day I went to a sadhu baba with my daughter when she was 3 years old to solve our conflict .then he put his hand on my head ,said something in my ear. Seeing this my daughter screamed loudly. What made my daughter so much shy and scared I don't understand. Please help me. What should I do.

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Alternative Medicine Specialist•Bangalore
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your four year old daughter does not talk to anyone outside. She is very active at home and very talkative. She speaks to family. You are worried about your daughter. You are worried about your daughter not talking to anyone in school and outside. You are worried about her not eating and not drinking water in school. It seems like your daughter could be upset about something. Talk to her and ask her what is bothering her. It could also be social anxiety. Consult a psychologist and explain...more
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Hi lybrate-user good to know that your ward has secured a seat in government medical college which shows she is an intelligent and ambitious person. It must have been difficult for her when she was interviewed by the police after her batchmate committed suicide. It seems like she often has thoughts of the incident and that could be causing her to have anger issues and feel extremely afraid. To feel better she can consult a psychologist and talk about what she went through. She needs someone with...more
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Asked for male, 35 years old from Azamgarh
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Psychiatrist•Dharwad
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It appears like you have panic disorder and you are right now on correct medications. May be dose needs titration. If you are tolerating well paeroxetine 12.5 and if if you have tried it for more than 1 month. Better to increase the dose to 25 mg once at night. In case of any anticipatory anxiety and when. You know you are about to face any stressful situation. Like some important meeting or some situation which can make you anxious, you can take betacap 40 mg stat on sos basis. On a long term b...more
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Asked for male, 32 years old from Navi Mumbai
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Homeopathy Doctor•Patna
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Hi, Lybrate user, go for meditation to calm your nerves checking emotional activities by inculcating a strong person from within.
Tk, homoeopathic medicine, underlying @ ignatia 30ch -5 drops, thrice. Avoid, junk food, alcohol and nicotine. Tk, care.
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Psychiatrist•Dharwad
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Decrease in sexual drive could be due to other factors like stress / depression. Sexual drive will not be increased by neither viagra nor tadalafil. Both of them increase erection but won't lead to any increase in sexual libido. So, better to consult a psychiatrist / sexologist before taking any further medications and ruining your health in long run.
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Asked for male, 33 years old from Fatehgarh Sahib
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Sexologist•Haldwani
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Hello-
loss of libido (sex drive) is a common problem affecting up to one in five men at some point in their life.
It's often linked to professional and personal stress. However, an unexpected loss of libido especially when it lasts for a long time or keeps returning and indicate an underlying personal, medical or lifestyle problem, which can be upsetting to both partners in a relationship.
If you're concerned about your libido, especially if your diminished sex drive distresses you ...more
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