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Marriage Counselling Questions

Asked for Male, 25 years old from Hyderabad
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Asked for female, 42 years old from Trivandrum
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MD - Homeopathy, BHMS

Homeopath•Vadodara
Marriage is a matter of mutual understanding and love and respect. It doesn't cause any difference with 5 year age gap. You must be prepare for responsibility of her and her kid after marriage. If you think you can than go ahead. Age will not be an issue.
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Bachelor of Unani Medicine and Surgery (...read more

Unani Specialist•Kanpur
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its ok both are adult and eligible for marriage as per indian penal law as well, rest which is most important are they agree or being forced . if they are agree its very nice.
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Hi, Facing post marriage issues like difference between spouse and my parents. Also wife is getting stressed easily and feels like there is nothing good left in life. She feels that no one is with her to understand her and is feeling sometimes hopeless. This is happening frequently and she feels very sad and crying sometimes. After few days she tries to forget n few days later she again feels like sad and not interested in doing anything even for her own self. This is happening from last 2 years since we got married and having issues in understanding her. She has lost confidence in herself and is not ready to listen to anything .she is lost in carrier as well and is not able to find job which makes her more stressed. Also the issues of mother in law n wife makes things difficult to handle. Please help in this regard Let me know when we can have consultation session with wife n my mom.

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Diploma In Psychology Counselling Skills...read more

Psychologist•Bangalore
Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Difference of expectation and opinions are common in any relationship and especially between wife and mother. What's important is acknowledging and accepting that there is a problem and seeking a right help to address it.
You are doing the good thing on both. Take the next logical step to consult a marriage counselor to open discussions this issue together or at least yourself first. Surely you will find ways to recover this relationship i...more
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C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S

General Physician•Alappuzha
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She needs a counselling ( pre marital counselling ) with an expert counsellor. Before that she may be counselled lovingly by elder relatives and friends who are married or are planning to marry
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MD - Homeopathy, BHMS

Homeopath•Vadodara
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There are high chances of getting genetic diseases if you have any in your father's family...
If not then no issues...
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MD - Psychiatry

Psychiatrist•Chennai
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Nobody can predict a happy married life. Nothing wrong in marrying a divorced man, but the real reason why his first marriage broke should ne ascertained. Also you can get a personality test/ evaluation for both of them to reasonalby predict if there is a maladaptive personality trait underlying as the mature man might project his good only and hide his underlying negative behavior, whcih we see very commonly. Also the age difference is huge, after 5 to 10 years there might problems with physica...more
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
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Dear user. I understand. This is actually wrong way of thinking. I always suggest there should be at least 5 years difference between husband and wife. One factor is respect and second is age related maturity. Most important is menopausal problems and fallout thereafter. I suggest you to ignore the age difference and go ahead with marriage. Take care.
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Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd

Psychologist•Bangalore
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Yes, you need to go for premarital counseling. Explain all your problems, doubts, past experiences and relationships and how to handle any situations. Your gender orientation may not be a problem unless you are still involved in that. But clear all your doubts and check your compatibility and adjustability problems too.
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