Marriage Counselling Questions

Hello Debarati.
In this situation according to me you and your husband both will need treatment.
You can consult me at lybrate for Homoeopathic treatment..

Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. There is nothing wrong or unhealthy in marrying a 13 year younger girl. There will never be any sexual problems.
I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you.
You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.

If both of you have a clearcut understanding of life and your issues ahead of you, there is no harm in marrying someone less than your age and I personally know many families where the woman is older than the husband and they have lived for 60-70 years as far I know.

You have o muster the courage to go and have a free chat with her and exchange the matters of interest.

You need to develop an open and frank talk whereby you analyse all your matters. You have to give a feeling that you are caring and concerned about her and will support her in her old age and will be with her ti the end of life. Whatever small problems she has and is in your capacity to solve need to be solved and she will be placated.

There is no medical help for forgetting and you have to build up mind to forget and forgive. Mistakes are ther to happen to everyone and one day even you may be doing mistake. Both of you sit and talk your issues or go out to some place for an open talk and all these will solve the problems.

Dear lybrate-user,
The question is not clear. Could you give some incidents to understand more about your problems?
May be it is a good idea to consult a clinical psychologist to get evaluated. Keep yourself engaged, going for walks, simple exercises, part time jobs etc
if you are angry, do not respond fast. Take a break for a few minutes and when you calm down, respond.
Listen to his concerns, active listening would solve many of the problems
all the best.

Hi Mam
after carefully listening to the history, I felt this issues need a deep evaluation. As you are from Chennai. I would like to suggest you please visit NIMHANS for all the solution. They have free legal add clinic in NIMHANS. Definitely they will provide the best solution. For any details discussion you may consult with us online. There no such test to prove they had sex or not.. Only you can prove the girl is virgin or not.

Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. Anger is an emotion and there is nothing wrong in it. But you must ascertain why your girl friend is getting angry. I suggest you to talk to her in detail and know why she is irritated with you.
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