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Dear doctor. I am girl 26 single. I had friend who is a male since 7 years. I fell in love with him. 4 years ago. But I didn't tell him. Around a 6 months ago I came to know that he is also interested in me. So a month ago I met him and proposed him. Due to some reasons he is not having the feelings for me right now. So he didn't accept my love. And I told him that I will not be in contact with him anymore as I can't even be a just friend to him. He said that its all my wish and I stopped talking to him. Its been a month. I started understanding him​, respecting his feelings even I stopped talking. Since 3 days I feel like I want to talk to him as friend. Now I am clear about him and me. I don't wat him to love me or I am not going to have any expectations regarding him. But I wish to call and have a talk to him friendly as I was before. Is it fine doctor? My friends are saying not to be in contact with him anymore. But I wanna talk to him. I am double​ minded now. Pls gimme a good advice doctor whether I can talk to him or not. Thank You Doctor.

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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. we will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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Asked for female, 35 years old from Navi Mumbai
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MPhil Clinical Psychology

Psychologist•Delhi
One seeks relationship outside his or her marriage when one is not happy with his or partner.
I understand that a bond has be formed with your online friend and now that he is no longer in touch with you, you should try to revive your relationship with your husband.
Consult a Clinical Psychologist in order to start with marital or couple therapy. All the best.
Asked for male, 40 years old from Chennai
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Hi sir, I know, every husband goes through, no matter how hard he tries to please her, some how she finds some fault in you. My wife's problem is that everything I do for her is wrong and at a wrong time. And in case if I accept my mistake and want to correct myself she will start it all over again. She will tell everything she wants but when it is my turn to speak, she says she doesn't want to hear the crap and nonsense and acts as if I don't even exist there. Suddenly she is normal and within minutes she is angry are her mood is spoiled and when you question her what happened, the answer is nothing. When I ask for a movie she will straight away say she doesn't want to go but few days she will. Complain about it that I don't take her out. I try to be romantic to make her happy she will say that please don't act as if you love me, please don't do this it looks very awkward when you do this. She complains that I don't spend time with her but when I do she says this is not the right time and also that I'm trying to force and being bossy because I talk to her when I feel like but she is not interested bcoz that is not right time and she is not in mood to talk, this happens even if I talk to her in morning, afternoon and night. Then I asked her please give me a timetable of your romantic and talking mood so I don't commit the mistake and talk to you at the right time and mood. I really don't understand how should I find in which mood she is and should I talk are be romantic to her. It doesn't end there in many other things this happens and I am always wrong and that I have screwed her life. There is a big confusion in my mind of who needs the psychiatrist is it me who does everything wrong at wrong time and mood are my wife who finds everything wrong. please advice. There are lot of other things that I want to mention but I think this is enough, if you are also happily married like me and others in this world who go through this but cannot do anything about it bcoz once again we are wrong and they are always right. God bless all the husband's in this world and save them.

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MBBS, MD - Psychiatry

Psychiatrist•Mumbai
Go for couples counseling with your wife, and both of you should make an active effort to work on your relationship. Professional help will be useful to develop an understanding between both of you.
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Asked for female, 27 years old from Tirupati
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Psychologist•Guwahati
Please talk to some relative of years whom you can trust and get them to talk the same thing out with years husband. If you are self dependent you may go for divorce or else you need to firstly workout years finances and then take the step of divorce if words and family talk can't resolve years issues.
Asked for male, 30 years old from Kolkata
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Psychologist•Jammu
Lybrate-user I can understand how difficult it is for you to go through all this. But you can not change your circumstances. Its also true that you both love each other. At this point of life you must be able to make difference between True love and Attachment. Am also sure you both are in true love and wish to help each other. Please consult a psychologist who can guide you.
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