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Asked for male, 35 years old from Bangalore
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Sir, As I mentioned in my query, I feel my wife is having some abnormal behavior. She is too possessive and takes everything negatively. I'll give you an example of possessiveness. She cannot tolerate even if my Son moves closely with me. She even cannot tolerate if I call my sister or someone as Amma, as other than my Mom, I used to call my wife as Amma. She feels I'm giving more respect/love to those people. She cannot even tolerate if some girl/lady comes and asks me address or some info. When we are at public places. No lady should talk to me, unless until she is either my Mom/Sister/Close relative. Even she will not tolerate if her sister talks to me. She cannot tolerate if my Son moves closely with her or my parents as well. She gets irritated and frustrated if he is moving closely with them. Because of that reason, she restricts me and my son to go to my home town. Every time when we have to go to my hometown she creates a very big scene saying why we should go to our hometown. And she denies every time. By saying something I'll make her to come. I should not watch tv/movie when a beautiful lady on the screen. I should not praise the actor or someone in front of her. I should not talk to any other lady other than my family members and that too in a limited fashion. I am thinking about myself as well as about my son. Because my son is a 5 year old, how much pressure he might be feeling by seeing such abnormal behavior in his Mom's face and activities. She cannot tolerate if he says I cannot eat and shouts like anything. She gets irritated for silly and unwanted reasons. Even she finds faults in every other person in the world. She feels every woman other than her are characterless and doubts everyone. After reading all these facts, please advise me what to do Sir. Please please please. Even I cannot tolerate this kind of nature for long time.

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MD - Psychiatry

Psychiatrist•Chennai
Your wife serious problems her personality, more likely paranoid personality disorder. Consult a psychiatrist and seek remedy.
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Asked for male, 27 years old from Bangalore
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Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. I suggest you to consult a Psychologist for counseling online. We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. We will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
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If u wants to cure ur problem permanently then u have to do proper homoeopathic treatment,,avoid taking high protein
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Psychologist•Bangalore
Hi Friend, Thanks for reaching out here for help.
Any relationship can be successful and long lasting when there is trust, open communication, give&take and understanding with the partner. Ensure that you are having all these in place in your relationship. Age is not a concern.
Suggest both to have per-marriage counseling or marriage counseling to clear your understanding or expectation gaps. Feel free to reach out to me for further assistance.
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Unani Specialist•Kanpur
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basant kusumakar ras 125 mg twice a day
gokshuradi avleh 10 gm twice a day

relief in 3-4 days and for complete cure take it for 60 days only

avoid spicy and oily food.
Asked for Female, 26 years old from Kottayam
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At my 12th std a guy proposed me he is a Muslim and i am Christian both are mallus. I studied in tamilnadu at first I refused to accept his proposal later on I forced myself to accept him because my parents were too strict and my mom always doubted me. I was lonely and depressed. Then we joined different college and different courses but we became more closer. We were so deep in love. We had physical contact during our third year but he never forced me nor took my virginity .then after college he went abroad n myself went to other state for work ,still we were so loving .in between our msgs got caught at both houses during college time. I told to his mom tat I love him .both parents were so badly treating us .then during our working period ,my dad passed away. I was broken but he was dre with n cared like a baby later on after a year ii came to know from his brother tat he was cheating me by being with other girls I saw some foods. I was shattered into pieces in all ways. I realised d Only care n love I got was fake . I stopped talking to him for six months but my life didn't change. I met him accidentally v spoke n decided to chat till v both get married to someone else because now I have only mom n bro though i am lonely I don't want to hurt them by eloping then my bro wouldn't get alliance from a good family .moreover ,he asked sorry for wt he did. But I can assure tat I was treated different I can still c d same love n care but he sd he can't marry me because f his family .now I too not ready for marriage .I told his brother I started talking to his brother ,he blocked me from watsapp n sad do as you like. Now I hurted his bro too because he was like my own brother he sad everything to save my life from his elder brother .now I'm dying with regrets .i realised no one is perfect .i love my bf unconditionally .I'm getting sick. Is it k tat I don't care about any and chat to my bf till I or he gets married. Please reply don't ask for a consultation if I feel ok with d reply I will consult.

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Psychologist•Thane
Hello librate user, when it comes to relationship issues one needs a counseling which requires times, just advice giving in text does solve the problem so I would suggest you to take a online counseling appointment through librate opd. The session is for 60 min n m very sure you ll benefit from the session.
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. You are YOU. Whatever your behavior today, whatever your body language today are learned from your past experiences and social interactions. Whatever you have learned can be unlearned or over written. This is a continuous process happening throughout your life. I suggest cognitive behavior therapy for you. Take care.
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I am really very depressed I am not able to sleep properly. I aborted my 8 weeks child with my own consent but I feel really very sad. My boyfriend was very good to me after abortion. I met him twice before coming to my hometown. But now his behaviour is completely different. He blames me for this. Today I went with a problem saying him that I am at my lowest point and I feel I am getting depressed day by day. His reply was he is not interested I should go to my friends who care about me. And not him (reason: in march april we had a fight n I had a conversation with my friend he do not like. And wen I got to know about pregnancy he wanted me to wait for 2 days. But I was so tensed and hype that we had an argument in which I said I have many friends to care about me.) For me it was just an argument. He too says very bad rubbish things while arguing. I never do this to him. I am always there for him when ever he needs me. Even at night 2 'o' clock he has a problem I go to him leaving my everything behind. I don't know what to do. Sometimes he is good sometimes he is worst. I cried a lot today saying him that please I do so much for you I am not okay and I need you. I am not going to any of my friends. I also told him that please do not bring these talks in between he replied that this is the time for such things I was waiting for some situation like this when you be in your worst time and I will not be there to care or even see you. Now go to your friends who care about you. I do not know what to do. I am not able to leave him. I am depressed and I get too panic. I do not have any control over me. Please guide me. Please I apologised to him several times. I do everything for him. Cooking for him. I keep him on top. But he only see negatives the arguments we had. The negative I did. He too has done a lot negative with me. What should I do please help me.

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Hello Lybrate user.
Don't be dependent on any one to such extent that the purpose of life becomes useless without that person. We are the one who can control everything in our life ,our happiness lies within us only. Don't depend on any other for this. At the same time we are human and get attached with people and when this type of situation comes life becomes hell. But it is not like that you can't be normal, you life can become very beautiful what you need is slightly change in your approa...more
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