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Asked for female, 32 years old from Navi Mumbai
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I got married to my boyfriend of 10 years and we both love each other a lot. But we had 2-3 years of long distance relationship, where I got to know that he was in conversation with a girl and they became very close friends & also kind of started seeing each other. He admitted that it happened as he was lonely and there was mutual attraction. But he never wanted to marry her. It led to a big scuffle & in the end I had to forgive him and we got married last year. He has been trying to keep me happy & I am happy with him but whenever we argue, I always bring that topic as it still keeps playing in the back of my mind. There is not a single day I do not think about that female or what might have happened. It has affected me very deeply & I am not able to come out of it even though its been almost 2 years.

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PhD - Clinical Psychology, Diploma in Cl...read more

Psychologist•Delhi
Hello,
As you just mentioned that he has accepted it and you had decided to forgive him and also got married to him then try to remove the negative thought from your mind and start thinking positive about your relationship. Try to spend time with husband and family and deviate your mind into married life. The more you think and talk about it, it is going to affect your mood and your married life. Try consulting a clinical psychologist for counselling sessions if required.
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Physiotherapist•Chennai
Don't get frustrated, time will change all your worries. U just concentrate on your work and try to put your best in it.
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M. S. in Psychotherapy and Counselling

Psychologist•Jaipur
I think the thought which has come to your mind is just a tip of iceberg. There should be more reasons being this thinking. As your history saying that you are an OCD patient that means you have an anxiety disorder. Now it may be so that you are finding yourself unable to take the big responsibilities which are coming in near future. So to escape from them this thought of divorce has erupted in your mind and to justify it the excuse of age and beauty has come.
I would suggest you to take pro...more
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MBBS

General Physician•Mumbai
You will have to talk to him and ask him to concentrate on his studies and be open to you about his daily activities with that girl in particular and please do not scold him and just be with him as a good father and tell him to speak the truth always.
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Ayurveda•Zirakpur
You have to prepare yourself mentally. Do deep breathing for that and also take aphrodisiacs to instil confidence in yourself. Still not willing pl be bold not to ruin both lives and say no courageously.
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Ph.D, M.Phil - Psychology

Psychologist•Mathura
It is unfortunate that all this has happened. But, try to take it as an accident. So many people loose limbs, or are lifelong incapacitated, but you are blessed- the accident has left you one piece. You can go on in the hope for better future options.
Please do not run after shadows. You will never be able to hold them. So, focus on all your positives. What all you have.
Let me help- 1. You are very fortunate that this truth was told to you on first night itself- can you ever imagine, sh...more
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Sex thoughts, Sex addiction, masturbation addiction, porn films addiction etc comes under behavior addiction. Behavioral addiction is a form of addiction that involves a compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related behavior – sometimes called a natural reward – despite any negative consequences to the person's physical, mental, social or financial well-being. Behavior addiction needs to be curbed or controlled using your own self will power. Diverting your mind and body away from the ci...more
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Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. It is very common to be tensed during and before first sexual intercourse. Such tension and stress could be called SEXUAL PERFORMANCE ANXIETY. Sexual performance anxiety is quite common and there is nothing to worry about it. Such sexual performance anxiety will clear itself after you get experienced in sexual acts. A major part of your performance anxiety is fear of what others are going to think of you, especially your sex partner, if you fail to perform. I suggest...more
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