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You need to meet a marriage counselor ande discuss your plight. If anything you could have stood firm on your decision not to marry. But now that you are married the fact that you did not like the proposal or the time of the marriage or whatever else, it has become painful to realize that you are in it permanently. I don't know the exact cause of concern but talking to a counselor will help before you get into depression. If the marriage is grossly incompatible it is best to seek professional ad...more
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First of all you cannot possess a girl you don't even own. You must have a lot of problems with relationships to get so enamoured in a one-sided affair. Secondly, if you love her more than yourself, you are not only trouble but you could become harmful to yourself too. No girl will want someone who is so crazy about them: they will literally run away from you. This is an important change you must make and I suggest you meet with a counselor for this purpose and as well as to help you emotionally...more
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Dear user. I can understand. You are YOU. Whatever your behavior today, whatever your body language today are learned from your past experiences and social interactions. Whatever you have learned can be unlearned or over written. This is a continuous process happening throughout your life. I suggest cognitive behavior therapy for you. Take care.
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Parents can have extra marital affairs as they are adults. Dont be sad for ugly face, underlying personality is important. Set simple goals in life and try to achieve them, try to be happy about yourself and take the positives from your parents. All the best.
Asked for female, 34 years old from Ghaziabad
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most likely he must have used it for some extra marital affair only, as men try to portray themselves as sexually more vigorous to new partners, feeling it would impress them and boost his self esteem. Watch him carefully and find the truth. All the best.
Asked for female, 26 years old from Trivandrum
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You will have to be clear on your relationship and ask him it is either you or his wife and let him choose anyone and I will suggest you to move on and get involved in serious relationship who is going to be your husband.
Asked for female, 32 years old from Navi Mumbai
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As you just mentioned that he has accepted it and you had decided to forgive him and also got married to him then try to remove the negative thought from your mind and start thinking positive about your relationship. Try to spend time with husband and family and deviate your mind into married life. The more you think and talk about it, it is going to affect your mood and your married life. Try consulting a clinical psychologist for counselling sessions if required.
As you just mentioned that he has accepted it and you had decided to forgive him and also got married to him then try to remove the negative thought from your mind and start thinking positive about your relationship. Try to spend time with husband and family and deviate your mind into married life. The more you think and talk about it, it is going to affect your mood and your married life. Try consulting a clinical psychologist for counselling sessions if required.
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Don't get frustrated, time will change all your worries. U just concentrate on your work and try to put your best in it.
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I think the thought which has come to your mind is just a tip of iceberg. There should be more reasons being this thinking. As your history saying that you are an OCD patient that means you have an anxiety disorder. Now it may be so that you are finding yourself unable to take the big responsibilities which are coming in near future. So to escape from them this thought of divorce has erupted in your mind and to justify it the excuse of age and beauty has come.
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