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Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd

Psychologist•Bangalore
You need to meet a marriage counselor ande discuss your plight. If anything you could have stood firm on your decision not to marry. But now that you are married the fact that you did not like the proposal or the time of the marriage or whatever else, it has become painful to realize that you are in it permanently. I don't know the exact cause of concern but talking to a counselor will help before you get into depression. If the marriage is grossly incompatible it is best to seek professional ad...more
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General Physician•Mumbai
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In my opinion, We can use your ovum and fertilise it with your husband spermatozoa and plan for surrogacy to continue pregnancy for a child
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Possessiveness is my problem. I was loving a girl since 2 years but she doesn't. If she love, marry someone I can't control my feelings. I brutally fixed my mind to have her in my life. I really love her more than me. But I'm a good friend to her. Practically she doesn't marry me as she knows. She doesn't love me anymore. So if she will marry someone how can I be calm. Although it will be single side love but the possession makes me to be in severe depression as I'm emotionally week too. I hv some girls in my fnrs. And the tendency to talk with new girls before 5,6 years when I'm new to Facebook made me bad to her mentality (50% rsn for not loving me) And I have changed, do not even like any girl. Actually she is a girl who wants one who does have responsibility and intelligence more than her. But I really care and love her *what makes me (tons of possessiveness) to be happy if she is happy with someone else* Please advice. Thanks.

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Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd

Psychologist•Bangalore
First of all you cannot possess a girl you don't even own. You must have a lot of problems with relationships to get so enamoured in a one-sided affair. Secondly, if you love her more than yourself, you are not only trouble but you could become harmful to yourself too. No girl will want someone who is so crazy about them: they will literally run away from you. This is an important change you must make and I suggest you meet with a counselor for this purpose and as well as to help you emotionally...more
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. You are YOU. Whatever your behavior today, whatever your body language today are learned from your past experiences and social interactions. Whatever you have learned can be unlearned or over written. This is a continuous process happening throughout your life. I suggest cognitive behavior therapy for you. Take care.
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MD - Psychiatry

Psychiatrist•Chennai
most likely he must have used it for some extra marital affair only, as men try to portray themselves as sexually more vigorous to new partners, feeling it would impress them and boost his self esteem. Watch him carefully and find the truth. All the best.
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I got married to my boyfriend of 10 years and we both love each other a lot. But we had 2-3 years of long distance relationship, where I got to know that he was in conversation with a girl and they became very close friends & also kind of started seeing each other. He admitted that it happened as he was lonely and there was mutual attraction. But he never wanted to marry her. It led to a big scuffle & in the end I had to forgive him and we got married last year. He has been trying to keep me happy & I am happy with him but whenever we argue, I always bring that topic as it still keeps playing in the back of my mind. There is not a single day I do not think about that female or what might have happened. It has affected me very deeply & I am not able to come out of it even though its been almost 2 years.

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Psychologist•Delhi
Hello,
As you just mentioned that he has accepted it and you had decided to forgive him and also got married to him then try to remove the negative thought from your mind and start thinking positive about your relationship. Try to spend time with husband and family and deviate your mind into married life. The more you think and talk about it, it is going to affect your mood and your married life. Try consulting a clinical psychologist for counselling sessions if required.
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BPT

Physiotherapist•Chennai
Don't get frustrated, time will change all your worries. U just concentrate on your work and try to put your best in it.
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M. S. in Psychotherapy and Counselling

Psychologist•Jaipur
I think the thought which has come to your mind is just a tip of iceberg. There should be more reasons being this thinking. As your history saying that you are an OCD patient that means you have an anxiety disorder. Now it may be so that you are finding yourself unable to take the big responsibilities which are coming in near future. So to escape from them this thought of divorce has erupted in your mind and to justify it the excuse of age and beauty has come.
I would suggest you to take pro...more
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