Adjustment Disorder Health Feed

Lybrate-user I can understand how difficult it is for you to go through all this. But you can not change your circumstances. Its also true that you both love each other. At this point of life you must be able to make difference between True love and Attachment. Am also sure you both are in true love and wish to help each other. Please consult a psychologist who can guide you.

If he doesn't love you like you do, then there could be something to be concerned about. If you look madly then that is not a good yardstick to judge his love by. Sex must be given to the person who deserves it. If he is in a hurry, then he does not care or respect your wishes. You need to step back and review this situation to get a proper perspective. If compatibility is not good, then both of you need to have a great amount of justifiability. This seems to be already indicated by two breakups...more

Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Loosing someone dear and near causes grief. Grief leads to disappointment. Grief related disappointment manifests symptoms as in the case of depression. But disappointment symptoms are far shorter in duration than depression. These symptoms will vanish in some days or weeks. Don’t worry. Physical exercise, outdoor games, entertainment, hobbies etc could help you divert your attention. I suggest cognitive therapy. Take care.

hello Preeti

everybody commits mistake but he apologized himself
forgive him and forget that incident

don't remind him that incident

try to become normal ...I know it's easy to speak but it is not impossible also

constant reminder of that incident will push him away close to that girl

I will suggest you to do surya namaskar pranayam daily as per your capacity for a minimum of six months and it will increase your self confidence and concentration.

You need to meet a marriage counselor ande discuss your plight. If anything you could have stood firm on your decision not to marry. But now that you are married the fact that you did not like the proposal or the time of the marriage or whatever else, it has become painful to realize that you are in it permanently. I don't know the exact cause of concern but talking to a counselor will help before you get into depression. If the marriage is grossly incompatible it is best to seek professional ad...more

Parents can have extra marital affairs as they are adults. Dont be sad for ugly face, underlying personality is important. Set simple goals in life and try to achieve them, try to be happy about yourself and take the positives from your parents. All the best.

most likely he must have used it for some extra marital affair only, as men try to portray themselves as sexually more vigorous to new partners, feeling it would impress them and boost his self esteem. Watch him carefully and find the truth. All the best.

You will have to be clear on your relationship and ask him it is either you or his wife and let him choose anyone and I will suggest you to move on and get involved in serious relationship who is going to be your husband.

Hello,
As you just mentioned that he has accepted it and you had decided to forgive him and also got married to him then try to remove the negative thought from your mind and start thinking positive about your relationship. Try to spend time with husband and family and deviate your mind into married life. The more you think and talk about it, it is going to affect your mood and your married life. Try consulting a clinical psychologist for counselling sessions if required.