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Adjustment Disorder Health Feed

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Psychologist•Bangalore
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What Is Adjustment Disorder
Adjustment disorders are considered to be a group of conditions which usually occur when a person experiences difficulty in coping with the stressful life events. These usually include relationship issues, job issues or the demise of a loved one. The incapacity to adjust to stressful events leads to psychological and sometimes physical symptoms.

Symptoms of Adjustment Disorder
The psychological and physical symptoms linked with adjustment disorder oc...more
Asked for female, 25 years old from Chandigarh
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I have been in relationship with someone who promised to marry me and since I have been with him in physical relationship. I am depressed and losing patience every moment. Its like I want to end up my life and nothing is making me come out of it. I am unable to indulge myself in any of the work and studies. My age is 25 and he just left me with no reason. The biggest thing that is killing me from inside is the reason that he is not telling me and suddenly left me in the middle of everything. How can someone do this and he is kind of person who is very calm and quiet. He never shouts and get angry. His silence is killing me from past 2 months now. Please advice and consult. Since I have got to know that few things he had been lying to me is more disheartening. His is not ready to accept his lies and faults and instead blaming me that you are worst and you shout over me. When someone is being left this way how can I stay calm. Reasons I don't know why had he lie to me and now not accepting it. I am not ready to accept that he left me and doesn't wants to come back. He says do not cry and if I do he says it all tantrums that you do, so do not cry and do drama. I have been in serious relationship where I have always been loyal and honest still I have to listen all this. I cannot bear its disheartening.

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Psychiatrist•Mumbai
Dear mam
I am sorry you had to go through so much. However, time is the biggest healer and I am certain you will be able to come out with time. Talk to your friends and family about how you are feeling. You will feel better talking about it. Please seek professional help to help you cope with this situation. See a psychiatrist for a detailed discussion and further support as you seem quite distressed at present.
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My query is in relation to hormonal changes in a women. I am divorced as my ex wife had unusual behaviour and says its because of hormonal changes (her age 40 same as mine). Massive outburst of anger range, thinking the person is best at times and then same person is bad if he acts or decides something which she does not like, abondament issue as if you are going to leave her (insecurity), impulsively leave a relationship without thinking of the consequences, compulsively lying and manipulation was also a part of our relationship as she wanted things her way and suite her needs, controlling nature and wanting others to behave that way. We did have differences and breakup in our relationship and use to not speak with each other, if I approach after 15-20 days she is all on me as to why I did not contact her for so many days but in reality she is the one to breakup and show no interest in a relationship at that point of time in her anger rage. She also degrades others family members thinking they are plotting against her and doubt all actions done by them are to harm her but in reality it is not the case. When taking any impulsive decision like leaving a relationship (done many times) for small things which can be sorted out she expects me to say sorry for it and call her back and not believe in all she said in anger and when told she could have called me and said sorry she says why I should call you because she is not at fault. Even she is not sure of her decision making and cannot control her emotions and doubts how she will make decisions at workplace. There is so much more to be said but I hope this provides a brief summary of my inconsistent  experience. I still do love her and want to be together but do not know is hormones causing all this or something else and how to deal with it. She is a student counsellor and has been divorced at age 23 and given her boy child to her father. She is currently living in Mumbai Nagpada.

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Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd

Psychologist•Bangalore
To confirm the effects of hormones you will need to consult an endocrinologist. As matters stand I suspect that it has to do with paranoia, which is a fear based condition, but she could escalate anger over that. She may suffer from a severe case of rejection, which includes abandonment too. Control will be an important requirement for her to feel in charge. The fear is the key and if that can be identified and accepted by her, a lot of work can be done. You must take her to a counselor and if t...more
Asked for male, 35 years old from Bangalore
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Sir, As I mentioned in my query, I feel my wife is having some abnormal behavior. She is too possessive and takes everything negatively. I'll give you an example of possessiveness. She cannot tolerate even if my Son moves closely with me. She even cannot tolerate if I call my sister or someone as Amma, as other than my Mom, I used to call my wife as Amma. She feels I'm giving more respect/love to those people. She cannot even tolerate if some girl/lady comes and asks me address or some info. When we are at public places. No lady should talk to me, unless until she is either my Mom/Sister/Close relative. Even she will not tolerate if her sister talks to me. She cannot tolerate if my Son moves closely with her or my parents as well. She gets irritated and frustrated if he is moving closely with them. Because of that reason, she restricts me and my son to go to my home town. Every time when we have to go to my hometown she creates a very big scene saying why we should go to our hometown. And she denies every time. By saying something I'll make her to come. I should not watch tv/movie when a beautiful lady on the screen. I should not praise the actor or someone in front of her. I should not talk to any other lady other than my family members and that too in a limited fashion. I am thinking about myself as well as about my son. Because my son is a 5 year old, how much pressure he might be feeling by seeing such abnormal behavior in his Mom's face and activities. She cannot tolerate if he says I cannot eat and shouts like anything. She gets irritated for silly and unwanted reasons. Even she finds faults in every other person in the world. She feels every woman other than her are characterless and doubts everyone. After reading all these facts, please advise me what to do Sir. Please please please. Even I cannot tolerate this kind of nature for long time.

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MD - Psychiatry

Psychiatrist•Chennai
Your wife serious problems her personality, more likely paranoid personality disorder. Consult a psychiatrist and seek remedy.
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Asked for male, 27 years old from Bangalore
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. I suggest you to consult a Psychologist for counseling online. We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. We will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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Diploma in psychology, PVA ayurveda

Psychologist•Bangalore
Hi Friend, Thanks for reaching out here for help.
Any relationship can be successful and long lasting when there is trust, open communication, give&take and understanding with the partner. Ensure that you are having all these in place in your relationship. Age is not a concern.
Suggest both to have per-marriage counseling or marriage counseling to clear your understanding or expectation gaps. Feel free to reach out to me for further assistance.
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Asked for Female, 26 years old from Kottayam
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At my 12th std a guy proposed me he is a Muslim and i am Christian both are mallus. I studied in tamilnadu at first I refused to accept his proposal later on I forced myself to accept him because my parents were too strict and my mom always doubted me. I was lonely and depressed. Then we joined different college and different courses but we became more closer. We were so deep in love. We had physical contact during our third year but he never forced me nor took my virginity .then after college he went abroad n myself went to other state for work ,still we were so loving .in between our msgs got caught at both houses during college time. I told to his mom tat I love him .both parents were so badly treating us .then during our working period ,my dad passed away. I was broken but he was dre with n cared like a baby later on after a year ii came to know from his brother tat he was cheating me by being with other girls I saw some foods. I was shattered into pieces in all ways. I realised d Only care n love I got was fake . I stopped talking to him for six months but my life didn't change. I met him accidentally v spoke n decided to chat till v both get married to someone else because now I have only mom n bro though i am lonely I don't want to hurt them by eloping then my bro wouldn't get alliance from a good family .moreover ,he asked sorry for wt he did. But I can assure tat I was treated different I can still c d same love n care but he sd he can't marry me because f his family .now I too not ready for marriage .I told his brother I started talking to his brother ,he blocked me from watsapp n sad do as you like. Now I hurted his bro too because he was like my own brother he sad everything to save my life from his elder brother .now I'm dying with regrets .i realised no one is perfect .i love my bf unconditionally .I'm getting sick. Is it k tat I don't care about any and chat to my bf till I or he gets married. Please reply don't ask for a consultation if I feel ok with d reply I will consult.

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Psychologist•Thane
Hello librate user, when it comes to relationship issues one needs a counseling which requires times, just advice giving in text does solve the problem so I would suggest you to take a online counseling appointment through librate opd. The session is for 60 min n m very sure you ll benefit from the session.
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Asked for male, 28 years old from Delhi
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. You are YOU. Whatever your behavior today, whatever your body language today are learned from your past experiences and social interactions. Whatever you have learned can be unlearned or over written. This is a continuous process happening throughout your life. I suggest cognitive behavior therapy for you. Take care.
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