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Hi, i'm a single mother of two grown up children. I got spread frm my husband cause of his abusive behaviour it's been 21 years now. I had raised my children with lot of difficulty without any help frm my family. My son has cmpltd his degree in enginr & my daughter has graduated in bms in marketing. They both are working temporarily since this yr, previously also they were working some part-time job .they are good by nature, hardwrkg .they would care & respect me &' wld take the rspnsblty. But now find the change in their before they had prmsed that they would help me financially & help me in the household chorus by dividing our work. Snce we three are working wch they use to do but now I fnd them careless about things, not taking rspnsbty most of all no respect they don't evn ask befr taking any decsn wasting money on silly things I wnt them to take respsblty but they don't care. So pls sggst hw to tackle them, why sudden change in their behvr because of this my health is gtng effctd i'm falling sick pls sgst.

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BHMS

Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
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It's because they are now earning money, they knew about the world, before that they were only dependent on you financially, it's hard to accept but it's true, butter truth of life ,u have to accept it, you can make them understood by presenting your thoughts, if work fine otherwise you need to prepare urself for this, accept it, you have done your responsibility with honesty, if they ignore it then nobody can do anything for it, talk to them politely regarding this matter.
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I meet a guy in matrimony, we have been taking since 2019, he was working in delhi, once myself and my family went to meet his family. There was not much response but still he called and we spoke, last years when he lost his job he came bangalore n stayed with me for 5 months then we both went to his place, but his family has issues within themselves, too much fight and arguments, also the guy he starts drinking from morning after he lost job and smokes, am not able to understand him now coz he says things which I cannot think is fruitful or productive. I returned back bangalore alone as I was not feeling happy and peace coz of fights (arguments). Now each and every time we talk some arguments happens, though I can't think of leaving him. I have become aggressive and when I want sometime alone am not able to. May be I don't want to talk to him or may b I don't like what he does, his family has lots of problem and complains. I need a peaceful life I am 34 n want to get settled but not like this.

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General Physician•Delhi
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Hi although this is not a medical problem but still I would like to answer.
As you have described that you like the person but not what he has become.
I would suggest you to talk to him seriously about your concerns and make a final decision based on his view for your future.
Storing your feelings and your fears with yourself will slowly start affecting your body and cause mental stress and harm.
I hope this was helpful
for any medical problem you can always consult freely.more
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Ayurvedic Doctor•Zirakpur
Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder (narcissism) can be difficult but therapy can often help. Types of therapy include:
Supportive psychotherapy
Structured psychotherapies
Structured psychotherapies etc

Medications may also be used to treat narcissistic personality disorder, both allopathic and Ayurvedic.

Yoga, pranayam, meditation are of much importance. Once you motivate the pt start into this, there ll be rapid improvement.
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Ayurvedic Doctor•Zirakpur
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Thinking us not bad. But balanced thinking is essential. You can cross it over smoothly if you adhere to basic tips. Little bit of yoga (say 15 minutes), little bit of pranayam (say 10 minutes) and little bit of meditation (say 5 minutes) has the power to change your life. To achieve it early you may change your diet habits and take some simple herbals. You can be a winner in 1 month. Ho jao shuru ek muskan ke sath.
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Ayurvedic Doctor•Zirakpur
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The styloid process is a small, pointy bone just below ear. Seems eagle syndrome - a condition that creates pain in your face or neck. If it is established, endoscopic surgery, nsaids, antidepressants, anticonvulsants, steroids, local anesthetics are generally used. Pl send doctor reports if physically checked. In ayurveda and homoeopathy also there are some treatments.
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I got married 3 years back (arranged marriage). My husband is the only son to his parents. I live with my husband and in-laws. My mother in law is a mental patient. If she shouts at my husband & his dad, my husband takes her words seriously & starts fighting with her rudely like breaking things near to him or keeps hitting his own hands on the wall. My husband gets very upset by her words and gets angry. (knowing her mental condition). My father in law is tired of telling my husband not to fight with his mom as she is a patient. My father in law can't leave my husband and his mom alone at home and go anywhere. If my husband starts fighting with his mom, someone should be there to control him. Since my mother in law is a mental patient, she wants to dominate others. If anyone goes against her, she starts shouting and crying thinking others are neglecting her. All she wants is love. She gets jealous if I am happy with my husband because she thinks her son may forget her. So she is not happy with me and my husband's relationship. I didn't know all this before marriage, my husband should have told me about this before marriage but he didn't. I married my husband and all I want is to live a happy and peaceful life. I don't want any expensive things. My mother in law wants me to be with her all the time & she doesn't let me live with my husband. 1 or 2 days it's fine. I can not sacrifice my married life for her. I tried to convince her but she is not getting convinced. If she doesn't get convinced in this matter, she gets upset and starts shouting. If she gets upset, my husband also gets upset and starts fighting either with me or his mom. I don't know why. I asked my husband not to get upset deeply as I am his future too. He says "listen to my mom and do what she says, otherwise divorce me" if I listen to her, she will be in good mood and my husband will also be in good mood. To keep her in good mood, I can't sacrifice my life for her. If my husband doesn't get upset even if she gets upset or tensed, he will be in good mood and I can live a normal life with him. But I don't understand why my husband gets upset if his mother gets upset. He gets so upset by her words that he either becomes completely absent minded or starts fighting with her or with me very rudely. In that case someone should be there to control him. Can you please answer me, why my husband does so or would any man do the same thing as my husband?

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Ayurvedic Doctor•Bilaspur
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shruti ji its really serious matter. but belive me your husban d is normal he does't have mental condition . due to some unaspected stree . all those thing happen. may be your husband thing you can make happy to her mother when he was outside. there may be also chances to dendency from your mother in law she doesnt fell happy when you both are happy. finally its irritating frequently in short time. just hope your good time will come soon.
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Psychologist•Bangalore
You may have had symptoms at an earlier time in your life. Ocpd is a fear-based disorder and if the fear is not identified and dealt with in therapy, you could continue to suffer. I suggest that you seek the help of a counselor too. The behavior will then become based on magical thinking and certain rituals will become necessary to do normal things making you believe that either the frequency or the ritual is important to its success. This of course is a fallacy but there will come a time that e...more
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Ayurvedic Doctor•Visakhapatnam
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Hello, greetings from your ayurveda wellness coach.
The best and ideal time for meditation or pranayama is morning hours between 4 to 7 am, this time period is called as bramhi muhurtham or the time of acquiring knowledge. The duration of meditation can be from 45 minutes to 90 minutes depending up on the sadhana or practice.
Based on your age and comfortness either you can select a place which is calm and either you can sit on floor or chair with proper seating posture and to be practic...more
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Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
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Wake up early go for walk or jogging in the morning, start doing yoga, start doing meditation, listen to soft music, go for a vacation, make urself bzyy in your work, read motivational stories, this will help, but meditation is most important.
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