My girlfriend is urging me to have sex with her (she trusts me very much and I love her so much too). But she is only 15 years old. And I'm 20 years old. Now if I refuse to have sex with her, she will certainly get hurt and also she will think I'm gay. So finally I've decided to do the same with her in safe mode. Now my question is will it harmful for her as she is too young? And if not I want to know the safest way of not getting pregnant.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist9yrs exp

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Hello- There are two aspects in your case first protection from pregnancy second post sexual effects to the female genital organs. Sex done in female with 15 years of age going to hurt her a lot as the genital are still in growing stage, and will also disfigure the virgin shape of her vagina. Secondly the safest method of sex is to use condom to avoid pregnancy and other STD's. I recommend you not to do vaginal sex, instead you can try oral sex or simply clitoral massage n all. 

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Dr. Nilesh M JoshiAlternative Medicine Specialist17yrs exp

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Hello, appreciate your thinking for her, for both of you this time n age for concentrate in to your study and planing for future. Explain her which you narrated here but any how avoid sex for this age Best wishes. 

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