Hello! I have a sex related issue. During the procedure everything goes fine. I get turned on and I get wet but the moment he penetrates I lose all my libido. I feel pain. And it's not like I am doing it for first or second time. We are in a relationship from last 1 year. Every time we get intimate I feel pain. I lose all the pleasure.
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I think that you have a frigidity problem from some earlier experience which may or may not be sexual in nature but you have converted it into a frigidity problem from fear. That even when you are brought to the right state of stimulation, suddenly at the time of penetration that foul memory is activated and the sphincter muscles become rigid and it becomes painful. There are some relaxation exercises that a sexologist will advise you and in therapy, you could resolve the trauma that started all this in the first place. After that, your sexual encounters will be very pleasureful and orgasmic too.
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Pain is because go vaginismus. Women with vaginismus can do exercises, in the privacy of their own home, to learn to control and relax the muscles around the vagina. First, do kegel exercises by squeezing the same muscles you use to stop the flow of urine when urinating: squeeze the muscles. Hold for 2 seconds. Relax the muscles. Do about 20 kegels at a time. You can do them as many times a day as you want to. Sexual practices with your spouse or current romantic partner, enjoy foreplay, which helps with relaxation and lubrication. For better result click on consult option.
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