My boyfriend broke up with me a month back. We broke up exactly 2 days after we went on a long distance. We both were very serious in the relationship. I had been fighting with him a lot for stupid reasons. I am so full of guilt and begged him to take me back. He has been refusing me constantly and says that he does not love me anymore and he has thought over his decisions again. I am tired of hearing all the advice from all kind of people. Grieve, start loving yourself, concentrate on work, pray, meditate, date other people etc. Nothing seems to be working for me. Please help.
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The basic assumption is that when someone does not love you anymore, you move on. You do not want to be in a relationship where you are not wanted and loved, period. There has to be some dignity when you go ask him to take you back. The more he does not want you, the more insulting it will be for you to pursue this relationship. You probably lack self-respect, experienced some rejection at home perhaps, or lack skills in maintaining relationships. If you can find out why this guy does not want you anymore, you could then work on dealing with that problem in you. Look within to see what drives you towards relationships that do not want you and you may make a very useful discovery.
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Look if he loves you then of course he will come back. But if he says m not interested in you. Then leave him. Don't waste your time for those people who don't love u. And you don't call him or msg him. So that he misses u. Show to him that you r good without him. If you r sad nobody loves you. Boys love those girls who r happy, chulbuli. Go for movie. Join dance class. Do something new. Don't think too much. Love your parents they don't leave we for small small things. May be he is not your Mr. Perfect. Take care. Eat healthy. First love urself then people loves you and nobody hurts you.
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Well it seems you can not always get what you want. You will have to simply live with his decision cause you can not make him change his mind right now. One hint here. When a woman acts clingy and falling on their feet. She is making herself vulnerable to their insults and degradation. So think about self respect!
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Hello lybrate-user I understand you are currently going through emotional crisis. Life sometimes throw challenges which can be overwhelming. All I would say is take few days to first comfort yourself. It's never wise to take decisions in crisis. So just get yourself into other tasks which are easy to handle. If needed talk to professional counsellors. Only when you are back in your old frame of mind think about best way to deal with this issue.
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