my wife and she has lost her sex drive that is what I feel and observe it when we are physical. We have two kids and are married for 12 yrs. Last few months I have seen whenever we have sex she has something on her back of her mind. I am not able to figure out nor she is able to speak up. Tried speaking to her too. Also now that she is away for work in different city she seems to be more happy. But last week she had been home for two days almost after one and half month. She was happy to see kids and me. But on the bed she seem to have the same problem. Please help me to identify the problem and suggest a solution.

Dr. Rajesh ChodaAyurveda35yrs exp

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Woman, in order to co-op with house chorus and work and many other social conditions, may face stress and sex drive may be affected. Some conditions of body may also lead to such situations. You need to give her adaptogenic and mood boosting herbs which also increase desire to have sex. Withania somnifera, asparagus etc are such herbs. Brahmi, pearl reduced are such herbs n minerals those bring soothing effects to brain. The combo with other such things are contained in our'female sex desire booster package' you also need to introspect your own sex behaviour, excesses or deficiencies, in order to bring mutual understanding with your sex partner/ wife to avoid such situations. On knowing that, solutions may be found more easily. 

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Dr. Girish DaniGynaecologist45yrs exp

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Lot of things affect sex drive. Something on your own you can try is enough time for foreplay. In case that does not work next step is for both of you to meet sexologist. 

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