Hi sir/mam I want to enjoy sex with my partner. How can we enjoy utmost because when we try to do anal sex I feel a lot of pain. How to enjoy anal sex?
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Apply ointment mucopain on the tip of your penis and on the walls of her anus, it will not give any pain.
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As per the indian law anal sex is unnatural and against the order of nature and if caught or being complained of, then you can be charged with sodomy. Having said that, it is of no body's business if two consenting adults indulge in any sexual activity, in complete privacy and if the act is not detrimental to the society, or to the two individuals involved. Lot of men enjoy anal sex with their partners. Vagina is meant for sex by nature and anus is not. Anus is a tube guarded by a highly muscular ring called anal sphincter. If the anal region is touched this sphincter goes into tight contraction or spasm and it is then difficult to open it. So the person who wants to get his anus penetrated, usually called the bottom, must use lots of lubrication and also keep on breathing in and out slowly through the mouth when the penetration is being done. Lubrication is required as there are no lubricating glands in that area. Lubrication will ease the passage of the organ into the anus. Also anus is meant for passing feces, so it is highly contaminated with bacteria and during rough sex these bacteria can cause entry to the partner's body so before attempting anal sex a good enema is must to cleanse the anal canal of the feces. If you have never been penetrated, first you must try to see if you can get accustomed to the idea of being penetrated, by using your own finger, which if lubed and gloved, and gently introduce it in the anus slowly bit by bit, using lubricants if you can manage to have your anus penetrated by your finger, you will get an idea of how it feels and then if you are wanting it you may attempt the anal sex. Your active partner, usually called top, must have lots of patience and he must use his skills to make you comfortable and use lots of lubricants on his penis and also apply it on your anus and in side it using his fingers gently. Then he may penetrate you with good steady efforts bit by bit, as you keep on breathing in and out through your mouth. Always use condoms while having anal sex or any sex lots of people feel pain on the initial few anal penetration, similar to the woman when they have sex initially, but while having sex, some persons may like the idea of being penetrated and they continue to have it. But if you attempt it and are not liking it, there is no need to go on trying it. Your mind and body will decide if you like it or not. If you like the act and enjoy it then you can go ahead, or else just do other things that are mutually acceptable. Many a tops are very emotionally persistent in demanding anal sex, if they have already enjoyed it before. Most bottoms are scared and they do it with pain initially. Very few enjoy the anal sexual act. But some allow to get penetrated just to satisfy their partners. So be wise and think twice.
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