Sir I want to commit suicide. Which is the easiest way to do so without harming my life.
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Suicide is harming your life by ending it. In almost every case of suicide, the problem that drove people to suicide has not been unsolvable. But then it is too late, and the person is not around. People who contemplate suicide do not look at all options and remain stuck with what seem impossible limitations. Suicide does not end the problem; it actually leaves others with more. And incidentally, there is no one worth dying for unless it happens accidentally in the process of saving them. Life is very precious. You must visit a geriatric ward in a hospital and you will see for yourself how many old people struggling to stretch life even for a few hours. You are obviously a bankrupt person spiritually: no spiritually sound person will contemplate suicide. Life is a gift of God and to be held in high esteem and preserved at all costs. You are probably depressed and when people are in that state, life looks miserable, hopeless, and futile. Depression can be resolved and if you have not used all the options to resolve depression, you would be inadvertently throwing away your precious life, never to get it back again. This life is an opportunity and since you have probably not utilized it well fro various unfounded reasons please look at it with other people for other options and it will seem better. People who contemplate suicide are lonely people: just addressing that problem alone you will find good reasons to live. Failed or the threat of failed relationships are at the bottom of most suicides. A newer theory about suicide, devised by an American psychologist called Thomas Joiner, states that three main factors can cause someone to turn to suicide. They are: ?A perception (usually mistaken) that they are alone and no one cares about them. ?A feeling (again, usually mistaken) that they are a burden on others and that people would be better off if they were dead. ?Fearlessness towards pain and death. Fearlessness poses the biggest risk that someone will commit a successful suicide attempt ? they may fear the pain more than the fear of death. Role of relationship problems in depression and suicides - Almost every day we read about people ending their lives by committing suicide; from celebrities, to common man, to even children. Although this is not permitted in any religion and there is a legal debate on whether it should be legalized, the fact remains that people are driven towards this unfortunate step. Let's take a look at the common reasons for suicides to become so very common. 1) Lack of intimacy- We see that although we are surrounded by people most of people are having friends only on Facebook. Even among the people we interact everyday nobody wants to open up with anyone or allow you to open up with them. The fact that you are surrounded by people who don't share themselves with you intimately starts pulling your mind downwards. Work colleagues are bothered only about work, family is only bothered about the income you are generating, partners are obsessed with how much you can spend on them, and friends are occupied with what benefits you can share with them. Therefore all in all, despite having all relationships, people feel left out and alone like as if their inner self has been left unwanted and uncared of. The monotony of mechanical life hastens the culmination of this abuse into drastic steps like suicide. 2) High demands- People are often left to fend with high demands from them from their social circle. Many people cannot attempt this and some who attempt are not able to make it. This leaves them with a feeling of failure which is often frowned and looked down upon whether it is a student or a professional. It is no surprise that today even below 10 years olds are successfully attempting suicides. 3) Inappropriate planning- Planning is a key necessity for successful results whether it is financial or relationships. But unfortunately many people are unable to obtain the correct know how which will enable to implement their plans successfully. 4) Inability to cope- Many people plan to do things but are unable to cope with the harsh realities that come with the plans. To some it may be unseen to some unbearable. So although they set out on doing something the journey is not what they had expected. 5) Lack of results- Sometimes although everything is planned well, executed well and completed well it does not fetch us the rewards that may seem appropriate to the level of efforts. This is something that is very difficult to deal for most people and is a result of many unfortunate casualties. 6) Lack of desire-It is very important to have something to look forward to in life. But unfortunately in an age where drinking water and using the toilet cost s money many people cannot think of having something to look forward to and hence this unfortunate step. Therefore, you have to be very prudent in what we are doing today because we can never predict which way our lives may go and even importantly which way you may yourself go based purely on circumstances beyond our control dependent on the choices we make today or others make for us. Although suicide is not a sensible solution to any problem it does remain a common reality. If you are feeling suicidal please remember to seek help. Please meet with a counselor immediately and take someone with you especially your parents. Get all the help and wait patiently because solutions come slowly and gradually. Cultivate perseverance and faith in God and yourself. Above all else learn to love life, and your life too: it is the most precious thing you have and will ever have. Pray and ask others to pray too.
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Hi lybrate-user, I can't even understand your state of mind while you saying this, you must be going through a lot. You are asking this question on a platform where we all are health professionals trying to help you to live healthily. So, obviously none of us will guide you with that. Infact no one should guide you with that. May be your worries and tension seem to be never ending right now, but nothing is impossible. I am sure there are people around you who know your worth and would be too hurt if you did any of harmful acts. Sanny, you can be perfectly fine if you seek treatment. Talk to me about what bothers you, what has brought you to this stage? why are you giving up. We all will make sure to deal with your difficulties together. Its easy to end, be a fighter as you know suicide does not take away the pain it only gives it to some one else. Consult immediately.
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