Myself is a 49 years old company executive, strong and stout. My wife has lost her sexual urge junior to me by 3 years. Recently I tried to have sex with one of my 44 years old un-married girl friend but found her vagina too much tight & could not penetrate her despite of all efforts like fore play, Lubricant use etc. Please advise the needful. Regards.

Dr. (Lt Col) Dinesh KumarGeneral Physician22yrs exp

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Hi. In many cases, a woman can experience painful sex or difficult penetration, if there is not sufficient vaginal lubrication. When this occurs, the pain can be resolved if the female becomes more relaxed, if the amount of foreplay is increased, or if the couple uses a sexual lubricant. In some cases, a woman can experience painful sex if one of the following conditions is present: ?Vaginismus. This is a common condition. It involves an involuntary spasm in the vaginal muscles, mainly caused by fear of being hurt. This could be the cause in your case. ?Vaginal infections. These conditions are common and include yeast infections. ?Problems with the cervix (opening to the uterus). In this case, the penis can reach the cervix at maximum penetration. So problems with the cervix (such as infections) can cause pain during deep penetration.  

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