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Ms. Baivashala Sheju

P. G. Diploma in School Psychology

Psychologist, Pune

6 Years Experience  ·  100 at clinic
Ms. Baivashala Sheju P. G. Diploma in School Psychology Psychologist, Pune
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Ms. Baivashala Sheju is a trusted Psychologist in Hadapsar, Pune. She has over 6 years of experience as a Psychologist. She has done P. G. Diploma in School Psychology . She is currently practising at Inner Space Career Guidance & Counseling in Hadapsar, Pune. Book an appointment online with Ms. Baivashala Sheju on Lybrate.com.

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Hii I am 23 years old I would like to ask you that how I can improve my concentration power wherever I read something I can't concentrate on it for longer time and after few seconds I feel that I read so much so pls help me .

CERTIFICATION IN BACH FLOWER REMEDIES OF ENGLAND, Ph.D DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY IN BIOCHEMISTRY, B.S.M.S BACHELOR OF SIDDHA MEDICINE AND SURGERY,
Alternative Medicine Specialist,
dear Lybrate user, White chest nut,Elm,Walnut,Chestnutbud, take these Bach remedies one dose once daily for a month and revert back
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I cannot concentrate in any work for long time My mind gets diverted from it Why it is happening? Please give me a solution for it.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
You may be under some stress that is causing all this distraction. Kindly meet with a counselor and sort that out soon for good results. In the meantime do some of these recommendations very faithfully: Daily exercise of at least half an hour is a must. Even if you go to a gym, ask for aerobic and/or callisthenic exercises with whatever else you are doing. A healthy body harbors a healthy mind. With regard to memory, it is very important that your brain and body is ideally rested to be able to recall whatever is required, rather comfortably. Puzzles pose problems to the brain that help it to use new pathways and neurons, which give the brain considerable exercise. It taxes the left brain to use logic to solve the myriad possibilities which other activities do not stimulate. Crosswords are excellent for vocabulary learning and use. Jigsaws and Rubik cube stimulate different permutations to finally settle on the most likely one. Picture completion and anagrams help approach problem-solving from several angles. Do Sudoku, and memory co-relation activities and skills. Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber (whole grains, fruits and vegetables), nuts, avocado, eat dark chocolate, consume less of fat and use olive oil instead, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. You need to check out if you are stronger visual or auditory. The visual is a better mode than the auditory. However, if you combine the two modes, you will get the best concentration. Have a special place of learning, which should be well lit, with soft painted walls, well-ventilated, with no distractions. When you get bored, study by writing. If you repeat learning, at least, five to seven times, you will apparently remember for a longer time. Sit comfortably but do not slouch. The reading material should be of a fairly large print. Study at small intervals of about 40 minutes and then take a break or change the subject. Short-term memory is a faculty of the left brain, and long-term memory is a feature of the right brain. When people are stressed, they tend to favor the right brain and abandon the left brain, where short-term memory resides. So, it is really very simple: deal with the stress and activate left brain functions. Here are a few suggestions to activate left brain function: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. There is a new exercise called Super Brain Yoga, which is done by holding the right earlobe with your left thumb and index finger, and the left earlobe with your right hand’s thumb and index finger. In this position, you must squat down and rise up and do this for five minutes every day. There is some memory enhancing techniques and study methods that your teacher will be able to guide you with. If your home life is full of distractions and stress, it is likely to affect your memory, adversely. In that case, I suggest that the family goes for counseling too. The following foods do help too: Blueberries, walnuts, turmeric, Spinach, tomatoes, broccoli, acorn squash, green tea, oily fish, boiled egg, turkey, apples, oatmeal, leafy greens, lentils, pumpkin seeds, avocado, cinnamon, thyme, sunflower seeds, and red wine. Avoid sugar and junk food. You may also include these noted foods that are good for your brain health: Brain-Friendly Foods MIND stands for Mediterranean-DASH Intervention for Neurodegenerative Delay. But the MIND approach “specifically includes foods and nutrients that medical literature and data show to be good for the brain, such as berries,” says Martha Clare Morris, ScD, director of nutrition and nutritional epidemiology at Rush University Medical Center. You eat things from these 10 food groups: • Green leafy vegetables (like spinach and salad greens): At least six servings a week • Other vegetables: At least one a day • Nuts: Five servings a week • Berries: Two or more servings a week • Beans: At least three servings a week • Whole grains: Three or more servings a day • Fish: Once a week • Poultry (like chicken or turkey): Two times a week • Olive oil: Use it as your main cooking oil. • Wine: One glass a day You avoid: • Red meat: Less than four servings a week • Butter and margarine: Less than a tablespoon daily • Cheese: Less than one serving a week • Pastries and sweets: Less than five servings a week • Fried or fast food: Less than one serving a week
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I'm hesitating to talk with new people as well as known persons. I'm feeling fear that how people think of me if I talk to them. I'm thinking every time that am I speaking right? Or wrong? Does it hurts them? Did I get a positive response? If not what will happen? I'm facing much difficulty with this problem. How to overcome it? I want to talk fearless and become normal. Looking forward for your valuable suggestions. Thank you.

B.Sc(Hons) Mumbai Univ., ND, MD - Alternate Medicine, Aroma Therap., Bach Flower Rem, Mental Health Cert.
Alternative Medicine Specialist, Mumbai
I'm hesitating to talk with new people as well as known persons. I'm feeling fear that how people think of me if I ta...
Hi I will prescribe some harmless but effective flower remedy available in homoeopathy shops. Try to buy original medicines. Mix 4 drops of Larch + 4 drops of Mimulus . Mix these with 100 ml water and drink it every morning and night.(same dose). If any problems consult me online.
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Sir I am suffering from numerating constantly but I am psychologically perfect but some times automatically turns towards n+ve thinking's and get depression and tension in the body and fear that some thing happen to me actually what happened to me pls and how to stop numerating constantly negative thinking's pls help to me.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Sir I am suffering from numerating constantly but I am psychologically perfect but some times automatically turns tow...
Before thinking about medicines try these Natural Depression Treatments Being depressed can make you feel helpless. But Along with therapy and sometimes medication, there's a lot you can do on your own to fight back. Changing your behaviour – your physical work, lifestyle, and even your way of thinking -- are all natural depression treatments .these tips can help you feel better -- starting right now. 1. Get in a routine. If you’re depressed, you need a routine depression can strip away the structure from your life. One day melts into the next. Setting a gentle daily schedule can help you get back on track. 2. When you're depressed, you may feel like you can't accomplish anything. That makes you feel worse about yourself. To push back, set daily goals for yourself. "Start very small,” "Make your goal something that you can succeed at, like doing the dishes every other day. As you start to feel better, you can add more challenging daily goals. 3. Exercise- It temporarily boosts feel-good chemicals called endorphins. It may also have long-term benefits for people. Regular exercise seems to encourage the brain to rewire itself in positive ways. How much exercise do you need? You don’t need to run marathons to get a benefit. Just walking a few times a week can help. 4. Eat healthy. There is no magic / special; diet that corrects depression. It's a good idea to watch what you eat, though. If depression tends to make you overeat, getting in control of your eating will help you feel better. Although nothing is definitive, there’s evidence that foods with omega-3 fatty acids (such as fish) and folic acid (such as spinach) could help ease depression. 5. Get enough sleep. Depression can make it hard to get enough sleep and can make depression worse. What can you do? Start by making some changes to your lifestyle. Go to bed and get up at the same time every day. Try not to nap. Take all the distractions out of your bedroom -- no computer and no TV. In time, you may find your sleep improves. 6. Take on responsibilities. When you’re depressed, you may want to pull back from life and give up your responsibilities at home and at work. Staying involved and having daily responsibilities can work as a natural depression treatment. They ground you and give you a sense of accomplishment. If you're not up to full-time school or work, that’s fine. Think about part-time. If that seems like too much, consider volunteer work. 7. Challenge negative thoughts. In your fight against depression, a lot of the work is mental -- changing how you think. When you're depressed, you leap to the worst possible conclusions. You might feel like no one likes you, but is there real evidence for that? You might feel like the most worthless person on the planet, but is that really likely? It takes practice, but in time you can beat back those negative thoughts before they get out of control. 8. Check with your doctor before using supplements. "There's promising evidence for certain supplements for depression, Those include fish oil, folic acid. Always check with your doctor before starting any supplement, especially if you’re already taking medications 9. Do something new. When you’re depressed, you’re in a rut. Push yourself to do something different. Go to a museum. Pick up a used book and read it on a park bench. Volunteer at a soup kitchen. Take a language class. "When we challenge ourselves to do something different, there are chemical changes in the brain, "Trying something new alters the levels of [the brain chemical] dopamine, which is associated with pleasure, enjoyment, and learning. 10. Try to have fun. If you’re depressed, make time for things you enjoy. What if nothing seems fun anymore? "That's just a symptom of depression, You have to keep trying anyway. As strange as it might sound, you have to work at having fun. Plan things you used to enjoy, even if they feel like a chore. Keep going to the movies. Keep going out with friends for dinner. When you're depressed, you can lose the knack for enjoying life, you have to relearn how to do it. In time, fun things really will feel fun again.
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I'm addicted in drinking. I started drinking daily around half quarter. Will this affect my health. I'm trying to avoid it but I'm not able. Will it effect my liver. Do you suggest any good medicine.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate-user, alcohol is a poison. It will affect your liver. In fact, it has already started affecting your liver. Please quit smoking. I know it is not easy to quit. You may need motivation therapy and deaddiction treatment. Please consult a psychologist
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Mai jo bhi answer yad krta hu wo answer muje bhul jata hai so please help me ki mai apne brain ko kese fast kru ki muje long time tk yad kiya hua mind me rhe.

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Homeopath, Sagar
Dear take following Homoeopathic medicine 1- Anacardiam 200 five drop's three times a day mixed with some water 2- Bacopa moneri Q ten drop's two times a day mixed with some water you will have to continue it for two - three months for any further assistance please consult me privately
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stay away from alcohol.

Ph. D - Psychology
Psychologist,
Alcoholism is a deadly disease which is very cunning, baffling and powerful. Please consult any addiction specialist if you think you have a problem with your drinking. Doctor can guide you a proper treatment plan or you can join a free help group meetings of alcoholics anonymous. This fellowship follow twelve steps. Aa" s are a group of principals, spiritual in their nature, which, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to be-come and usefully whole.
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Sir I have a 10year old daughter studying in V. Shez complaining lack of concentration.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
Hello, There are few food items which helps in boosting up the memory power, increases focus & concentration, so try to take more of these: 1.Choline: Good sources of choline include liver, milk, eggs and peanuts. 2.Vitamin B: B vitamins are not synthesized in the body, and thus need to be obtained from food. B-complex vitamins are water-soluble vitamins, which means that they are not stored within the body. In consequence, the B vitamins need ongoing replenishment. Vitamin B1 (thiamine) rich sources include unrefined grain products, ready-to-eat cereals, meat (especially pork), dairy products, peanuts, legumes, fruits and eggs. Foods that contain high concentrations of vitamin B3 (niacin) in the free form include beans and organ meat, as well as enriched grain and cereal products. While niacin is present in corn and other grains, the bioavailability of the nutrient is much less than it is in protein-rich sources. The role of vitamin B9 (folic acid) during pregnancy is vital to normal development of the nervous system in the fetus. Good sources of folate include liver, ready-to-eat breakfast cereals, beans, asparagus, spinach, broccoli, and orange juice.Animal protein products are a good source of vitamin B12 (cobalamine), particularly organ meats such as kidney or liver. Other good sources are fish, eggs, and dairy products. 3.Vitamin A: The foods highest in Vitamin A are any pigmented fruits and vegetables and leafy green vegetables. 4.Zinc: Zinc is a very important part of the brain as well; many regions of the brain, such as the cerebellum, and hippocampus have neurons that contain this nutrient.Zinc is needed to maintain normal Vitamin A levels in blood plasma. Sources of zinc are meats, certain seafood, whole grains, baked beans, oatmeal, milk (low-fat), cashewnut, almonds, kidney-beans, cheese, peas, spinach, sesame seeds, pumpkin seeds, flaxseeds. Medication: Take homoeopathic medicine for increasing memory - Anacardium 200/ once daily.
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Main bronchitis ka patient hun. Mujhe suki khansi rehti hai. Dhndi cheeje khane se chehra suj jata hai. Demag bhari rehta ha o bolne se bhi demag me bharipan rehta hai m. Meri memory bahot weak ho gai hai. Please sir koi homeopath ki top medicine batane ka kast karen.

BHMS,NDDY
Homeopath, Jaipur
Dear don't worry u should take belladonna 200single dose for 7day days and update me if u have any questions about your problem you can ask me
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Hi, I am 31 years old and have headache, tension, depression. I always this about my old memories. What should I do? Kindly give me some solutions.

MBBS
General Physician, Kolar
Hi, I am 31 years old and have headache, tension, depression. I always this about my old memories. What should I do? ...
the symptoms you've shared here, might need some counseling from a psychiatrist. If these problems are interfering with your daily activities, it is better if you see a specialist.
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Hii sir l last yeqr I lost my crush now I am so depressed. Tell me sir now what I do pls help me please suggest me I am waiting your reply.

MBBS, MD Psychiatry, DNB Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Nagpur
Hii sir l last yeqr I lost my crush now I am so depressed. Tell me sir now what I do pls help me please suggest me I ...
At the moment you may follow simple suggestions as below - do not stay alone just ruminating on what happened - talk with friends or people whom you trust and feel comfortable with. Discuss rationally. - do not resort to harmful activities like showing aggression on your love interest, consuming harmful substances like alcohol, smoking etc. These things would cause more harm than good in future. - spend quality time in things which help you relax like exercising, playing, spending time with family, going on vacation, pursuing a hobby etc. Feeling depressed is just a phase at present. If you continue to feel low and feel difficult to get out of it than consult a psychiatrist personally for counseling and treatment.
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I have been taking antidepressant and sleeping pills,Melzep.0.5 mg and Trapex 2 daily since last over 14 years by prscription of an army psychiatrist.I have no side effect as long as I keep on taking it,else I get symptoms backI had beeps heart surgery in 2003 and am 72+ YEARS.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Hyderabad
Neither Melzap nor trapex is a antidepressant, they are primarily sleeping and anxiety reducing medications. If you are still experiencing any symptoms of depression you need to see a Psychiatrist and discuss options.
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How to get a rid from anger?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist,
You don?t have to get rid of anger; you must learn how to express it properly. However, there may be a problem with how angry you get and for small reasons too. Sometimes by suppressing anger over the years you may be carrying an overload of unexpressed anger that will come out in impulses and will the least of provocations. These piled up emotions must be dealt with even now and after you have relieved yourself of past feelings you will be able to handle current ones with a lot of ease. Since you are already displaying so much anger at such speed, it indicates that there was something that had happened in your early childhood, including prenatal life, which is contributing to this situation. Your mom will know what that is all about, and equipped with that information meet with a counselor soon. In fact it will be easier to work on it now than later when the anger behavior will be too entrenched to remove easily. In the meantime go for regular and vigorous exercise daily, preferably the aerobic kind. Also you must introspect whether you are actually scared but choosing to act angry because it is a power feeling compared to being in fear. In that case you need to handle the fear and not the anger and your problems will cease to trouble you. Even so you must then find out about why there is so much fear in your life at this stage. Anyway anger management classes will be still be beneficial for you.
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In continuation of my earlier problem of anxiety and depression I would like to say that I have a problem of facial clenching when I laugh, talk. This creating tremendous embarrassing to me also I have unknown depression. Kindly tell me how to overcome this unable to laugh, clenching in the face and pain in the jaws when I talk, laugh etc.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
In continuation of my earlier problem of anxiety and depression I would like to say that I have a problem of facial c...
Dear, social anxiety disorder or simple anxiety disorder, produces many physical symptoms which may not have any organic or physiological reasons. Most of the symptoms we just' feel. In actuality they are' not there. You must understand the characteristics of this genuine problem before going for treatment. Online counseling, psychotherapy and life style changes should help you. Post a detailed private question to me. I will help you manage your anxiety disorder. Take care.
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I met with an bike accident 1year ago followed by the frontal head surgery. Now my problem is that I cannot memorise thing for a longer time. I feel I have weak memory power. Feeling depressed thinking about the same. So kindly suggest me what should I do so that I can improve my memory power as same as earlier before my accident. Thanks.

Ph. D - Psychology, Professional Certified Coach
Psychologist, Ahmedabad
I met with an bike accident 1year ago followed by the frontal head surgery. Now my problem is that I cannot memorise ...
You need to work systematically to regain your focus concentration and memory. Please try following things and if you need any further help you may contact me again. Concentration is a mental skill that you can develop. There are two ways to improve your concentration: first, raise your brain's natural ability to concentrate. In other words, increase your attention. Second, adjust the environment around you to make concentrating easier. To improve your concentration takes a little time and effort, but it can be worth it. In my personal experience with students. This can make noticeable improvement in a relatively short time. Ideas for daily concentration-boosting habits include: mindfulness meditation - many studies confirm that 20 minutes of meditation or more per day improves concentration and attention span. Focusing on your breathing, known as mindfulness meditation, is one of the simplest way of meditation. Start with ten minutes in the morning and ten minutes before bed. Proper sleep -i am sorry to say it. Pulling all nighter will not help with your grade. Unless you are getting sufficient restful sleep, you are not going to be as mentally focused as you could be. Brain game -. The more you use certain skills, the more they are reinforced in the brain. So it makes sense that playing concentration games and games that require you to focus will improve your concentration ability. You need to be consistent in this. Play for about 10 to 20 minutes each day. Have fun, and get the benefits but remember not to spend more than 20 minutes a day. Your goal is to improve your concentration and not the score in the game! eat healthier - your brain needs the proper nutrients to allow you to focus. Eat more vegetables and fruits and avoid consumption of junk food as much as possible. Lot of research has now proven that sugar is very harmful for our health. Reduce sugar and refined white floor in your diet as much as you could. Exercise is helpful in both reducing stress and increasing focus. At-least 20 minutes a day would go a long way. Optimize your mental state & environment in addition to building the habits described above into your daily routine, also adjust your environment and your current mental state to improve your concentration when studying. Create a study spot. Your brain loves routine. Create a place where all you do is study. An obvious choice is a secluded desk of some kind, but the trick is to make sure you only study in that spot. Studying in bed is a bad habit, for example, because your body is trained to want to sleep once you get into bed. Remove distractions. Turn off the ringer on your phone and take other steps to prevent interruptions. Don't study with the television on or with talk radio playing. Some studies have shown that soft instrumental music (no vocals) can help improve your concentration. Block background noises. If you have to study or work in an environment where it is too loud (classroom or open space) or too quiet (such as at home or at a library) you can get easily distracted by outside influences. With the right amount of background noise you can actually block out distractions and enhance your creative thinking. Use time boxes. Set a time limit when you need to study new material. For example, let's say you want to read one chapter in a book (and remember it). Decide in advance that you can have 45 minutes to read the chapter, and 15 minutes to review it. Set a timer to keep yourself honest, then pace yourself to keep within the allotted time. Stay motivated with rewards. If you see studying as burden, it's hard to concentrate. One way to stay motivated is to set up a reward system. Tell yourself you have to earn that hour of watching your favorite show later in the evening by first completing one hour of intense studying. That way, even if the material is dry, you have the reward to look forward to. Take a break every two hours. You mental energy will begin to decline after a long period of study. So every two hours or so, take a ten minute break. Walk around, eat a light snack, or just stare at the wall to relax your mind. Concentrating is the first step to learning anything new. It only makes sense that if you improve your concentration, your memory will improve also. Wishing you very best,
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Hi doctor. I am posting this question for my friend. She is 22 years old and currently in bangalore. Shes extremely disturbed as shes in a very unstable relationship and can not seem to break away from it. Even If she decides to let go she somehow relapses back and does not seem to be happy about the relationship or about herself. Even continuous advice from friends does not help her. Is there any way to help her focus on herself rather than the boy through therapies? She is in need of help desperately. Pls help her. Thanking you

BPT, Certified Osteopathic Manual Therapist, Diploma in Osteopathy
Physiotherapist, Gurgaon
Hi doctor. I am posting this question for my friend. She is 22 years old and currently in bangalore. Shes extremely d...
Yes sir it's a disturbance in co-ordination between motor centre an demotion centre of brain. You need to visit a osteopath which help you to make coordination between both the centre by doing cranial therapy. Which is only can handle by expert osteopath.
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I want know how much take homeopathy medicine'accotinum napellus' for depression and anxiety Dose.

BHMS, MD - Homoeopathy
Homeopath, Lucknow
I want know how much take homeopathy medicine'accotinum napellus' for depression and anxiety
Dose.
Any homoeopathic drug is not to be taken like that, without prescription of a qualified Homoeopathic Practitioner. As drugs in homoeopathy are given according to whole symptom similarity, and not merely on disease diagnosis. As it can be harmful also.
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Am 23years boy and I am a weekly smoker but I afraid of the cancer so please suggest to prevent it and also to stop smoking.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate-user, Tobacco is addictive. Cigarette also contains 4000+ carcinogenic chemicals other than nicotine. Nicotine and other chemicals can cause cancer of different types and areas. Throat cancer, mouth cancer, lung cancer, stomach cancer and brain problems can result. Over and above smoking may also increase the risk factor of heart attack and brain stroke. Please quit smoking. The best method is to leave it and continue with your will power. There are other methods like Nicotine Replacement therapy and pharmacotherapy combined. If you’re ready to stop smoking and willing to get the support you need, you can recover from nicotine addiction and abuse abuse—no matter how bad the addiction or how powerless you feel. The first step in treating nicotine addiction is accepting that you have a problem. Confronting an addiction and accepting responsibility for your actions isn’t easy. But it’s a necessary step on the road to treatment and recovery. You should then consult a psychiatrist / psychologist who fill follow this treatment. 1. Detoxification using medicines. 2. Behavior modification with the help of therapies. 3. Counseling. 4. Medication to sustain and 5. Long term support. These given steps are essential for any addict to get effectively rid of smoking. Therefore, you need to stick to the treatment plan and cooperate with your psychiatrist / psychologist. Mind power building therapy, motivation therapy etc should help you doing so. I suggest you to consult a psychologist or de addiction therapist. Take care.
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How Does Peer Pressure Influence Teenagers to have Sex?

MBBS, DGO, MD - Obstetrics & Gynaecology, MRCOG
Gynaecologist, Delhi
How Does Peer Pressure Influence Teenagers to have Sex?

Peer pressure is always difficult to deal with, especially when it comes to sex. Many girls feel the pressure from friends to have sex before they're ready, which is why it's so important to have the confidence to say no to something you don't feel ready to do.

Just because your friends are having sex or say they're having sex doesn't mean that you have to as well! you might feel like everyone is doing it but you will soon realize that this is not the case. Your friends may talk about sex in a casual manner. If you have a good group of friends, they should not be pressuring you into doing something that you're not ready to do.

Pressure from magazines, celebrities and peers can all contribute to the pressure that you may feel. On tv, sex is displayed in such a casual way, however you should remember that sex is actually a really big deal! you need to make sure that you're completely confident and comfortable with your decision if you do decide to have sex. Think carefully how you feel yourself about having sex, as this is the first step in handling the peer pressure. It's okay to have fun when you're a teenager, but equally you need to respect yourself enough to say no I'm not ready and your peers should respect that too. When making the decision to have sex, consider whether peer pressure is influencing your decision or if it's something that you have decided that you are ready to do. Once you've had sex for the first time you can't go back, so make sure it's a decision that you won't regret.

Remember that there is no certain age that you are expected to have sex a lot of people wait until they're married! everybody is different and will mature and feel ready at different ages, so just because your friend is doing it and feels ready now, this does not mean that you should feel that way too. Don't ever have sex just to fit in with your friends, as they will respect you more if you stick to your morals and don't do things just because you're pressured to.

If you're worried about peer pressure, know that you're not alone. Hang out with friends who understand you and also believe that it's okay to wait to have sex. If you're going on a first date, go along with friends so it's not just you and your date. This way, if you feel worried that you might be pressured into doing something you don't want to, you won't be alone. Think of what you would say in advance if anyone tries to pressure you in the future, so that you're not caught off guard or feel like you have to do something you don't want to. You are never obliged to have sex with someone, so even if they try to make you feel guilty never do something that you don't want to do, as it's always your decision. Sex is not something that you should rush into, so take your time until you feel 100% ready to take the next step. Respect yourself, your morals and your body and when the time is right to take the next step, you will know.

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I can't sleep nowadays. I am preparing for JEE in Kota because of study I started sleeping late at night, but now I want to sleep early but I can't. It is getting worse, I just lay down on my bed hoping for sleep but nothing happened. I don't drink coffee, alcohol nothing. Now in 24 hrs I hardly getting sleep for 2-3 hrs that is also in morning or afternoon. Please advice what can I do for this?

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Psychologist, Vijayawada
I can't sleep nowadays. I am preparing for JEE in Kota because of study I started sleeping late at night, but now I w...
Develop to read at day time. Day time more time when compared to the night time. Mind is also work very active in afternoon time. Read night time also but maintain time table how many chapters should I complete. Maintain time up to 12. After take rest without sleep also you go to bed. After you will get sleep. Develop that attitude sincerely practise it then automatically it will become your regular attitude. Develop schedule of work, plan of action, time management based on this go for studies. Without plan it is waste of time unnecessary leads to other problems like this. Be plan based on that follow. Then take rest. Be friendly with others. Be happy and be sociable. Ok best of luck best wishes.
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