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I am 24 years old, and I have been suffering from dandruff, hair fall, thicker hair and going to almost bald, I am very much tensed with this problem, please help me.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
I am 24 years old, and I have been suffering from dandruff, hair fall, thicker hair and going to almost bald, I am ve...
Hello, Dandruff causes hair loss so its necessary to treat dandruff first. Take Thuja 200, 5 drops in the morning, once in a week. Take Arnica Q and Cochleria arom. Q in equal amount, mix with equal amount of coconut oil, and apply this on your scalp, thrice a day. Wash your hair with B&T Anti- Dandruff Shampoo. Home remedies are as follows:- Coconut oil helps eliminate dandruff due to its antifungal properties. It also moisturizes dry scalp and provides relief from itching. Take some coconut oil and mix half the amount of lemon juice in it. Rub it on your scalp and massage for a few minutes. Wash your hair after at least 20 minutes. Follow this remedy two to three times a week. Revert me after 1 month.
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I would like to know how long the effect will be there for inderal tablets. I am having it 1 hour before any anxious situation.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Patan
I would like to know how long the effect will be there for inderal tablets. I am having it 1 hour before any anxious ...
Dear lybrate-user, thanks for writing to us. I understand your concern. Inderal tablet contains propranolol drug which is beta blocker group. You should take this medicine under medical supervision only. You take it for anxiety provoking situations. I recommend you to consult psychiatrist for this. There are anti anxiety medications and behavior therapies for anxiety disorders. Propranolol alone cannot cure your illness. Onset: within 1 to 2 hours after oral use. Duration: 6-12 hr (immediate release); 24-27 hr (extended release) peak blood levels: 1-4 hr (immediate release); 6-14 hr (extended release) I hope this will help you. Warm regards.
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Do you have cure for Bipolar depression , I mean alternate day no mood to do any work and feel lazy whole day while other day full energy .

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Do you have cure for Bipolar depression , I mean alternate day no mood to do any work and feel lazy whole day while o...
At your age, the cure for bipolar is very difficult. But there is no harm in trying and meeting the requirements and seeing how good the effect will be. Comply with all the medical prescriptions and work in tandem with a counselor for a long time and learn coping skills and techniques to handle the daily challenges you will face. There are certain adaptations that will suit you during the elation phase and there are certain behaviors that are required during the depressed phases. In the meantime, you can do certain things that will give you benefits anyway. Emotional therapy will alleviate a lot of the problems faced in this condition because it is a mood disorder. You need to particularly look at your levels of anger both for its reasonableness and to express it in an appropriate manner. I suspect that much of this anger may have origins in early childhood that you may never be aware of now. This information will help the counselor too. Also, you will need to check whether there is any genetic factor involved. You must exercise regularly, eat healthily and sleep normally too. If your motivation and cooperation are good much can be achieved. You must have a time-structured schedule filled with interesting and reasonable activities and it must be monitored for compliance and delivery. The reason I say this is that many times you will be inclined to have grandiose notions and confidently believe that you can do without the medication. This will set you back many months in the treatment and delay and sabotage the recovery: forewarned you are forearmed. If this combination of medication with therapy is maintained for at least three years without any episodes or breakdowns, it is possible to taper the medication in consonance with the doctor. Bipolar is characterized by two extreme poles i.e. feeling very high (mania) and suddenly feeling very low (depression). You can ask the doctor for the symptoms he noticed in you for a personal understanding.
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How to stop smoking, I'm smoking from last one year and I'm feeling not. Please help me with this.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
Hello,Smoking is injurious to health. Smoking can have serious effects on your life. The longer you smoke, the more damage you do to your body.If you want to quit smoking then take the below treatment:- take tabacum 200, 5 drops once in a week and arnica 30 ch, 5 drops once daily.Daphne indica 1x, 2 tabs twice daily. Revert me after 1 month.thanks.
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My age 45 and in this my job insequire so I feel depressed always, how I overcome in this situations.

M.Sc - Honours in Counselling Psychology, Bachelors in Psychology
Psychologist, Bangalore
My age 45 and in this my job insequire so I feel depressed always, how I overcome in this situations.
Hello lybrate-user, when it comes to employment in the present era, its quiet challenging and competitive. We have to cope up with the market, competitors and have to speed up our abilities accordingly. We may not be tech savvy, or may not be using gadgets in our earlier days of work, but the scene is very different now. I would say, you may have to brush up your skills and abilities depending on the nature of work you are on. If you are able to do this, your insecurities and depression can be automatically worked on.
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I'm 22years old. Recently started smoking. Approximately smoked around 35cigarettes. After smoking I can't walk for 50sec and even shivering. My hands and legs shaking after smoking. I feel like exhausted. I'm completely out of mind after smoking. What is the reason.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Obviously the effects of tobacco are not at all agreeable to you. Nicotine makes the heart beat faster and raises up your bp immediately. The carbon monoxide reduces the oxygen carrying capacity and makes you feel exhausted and affects your stamina. The nerves are also affected by smoking and therefore shivering and discomfort may also be experienced. The out of mind experience is also quite typical in the initial stages of smoking and many people go for that kick from the butt. But kick the butt you must before you get too enslaved to it. For some people the effects are less than for others. For you it clearly indicates that smoking is contraindicative and not at all suitable for your constitution. Very simply, stop right now and live well. Smoking is injurious to health for any and every body.
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My mother is suffering from sleeping disorder. She sleeps 2 to 4 hours in night that too not continuous sleep. She keeps on thinking about unwanted things and makes herself stress and anxious. Please help me over this to make my mom normal. It's makes me so panic and worry. Thanks in advance.

PG Hom, London, BHMS
Homeopath, Mumbai
My mother is suffering from sleeping disorder. She sleeps 2 to 4 hours in night that too not continuous sleep. She ke...
Hello Prabhu, You can ask your mother to take Tablet Atarax 10 mg at bed time. It will reduce her stress also and help her get good peaceful sleep.
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Sir I have nightfall problem since 3 years and sir I have memory loss problem from nightfall. Sir please help me. And sir memory loss problem think ho sakta h ki nhi .Aur sir bad thinking hone pr chipchipa water color padarth aata h. Aur urine yellow bhi hota h and after urination walking karne pr 4 to 6 drop urine bhi fall hota h pls help me sir.

BHMS
Homeopath, Chennai
Sir I have nightfall problem since 3 years and sir I have memory loss problem from nightfall. Sir please help me. And...
Nocturnal Emissionis defined as the involuntary ejaculation of semen during a night without sexual intercourse allied with sexual dreams. Furthermore, nocturnal emission is commonly known as "Nightfall" or "Wet dream" Nightfall or nocturnal emissions are simply a reaction of reproductive system to chuck out the excessively produced fluid in it and male’s reproductive organ ejaculates this excess fluid when he is sleeping. Homeopathy is one of the most popular holistic systems of medicine. The selection of remedy is based upon the theory of individualization and symptoms similarity by using holistic approach. This is the only way through which a state of complete health can be regained by removing all the sign and symptoms from which the patient is suffering. The aim of homeopathy is not only to treat night emission but to address its underlying cause and individual susceptibility. As far as therapeutic medication is concerned, several remedies are available to treat night emission that can be selected on the basis of cause, sensations and modalities of the complaints. You can easily take an online consultation for further treatment guidance and permanent cure without any side effects.
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I fell in love. My relation had been going on before 3 years back. And now she is going to marry in her cast by next year. Actually what happen she offer me for marriage but I dint accept for that moment because I am not stable. In feb 2014 she left me. And she is not any more in my life. But still I remember all that days. I don't know why all these thoughts comes in my mind. For that I get disappoint now and every time. Almost 2 yrs is going to be complete. But I unable to forget her. nowadays I always wanted to meet her. But she not talked to me. Sometimes we chat on whatsapp for 10 mins only and after that she blocked me not to talk further. As I chat with her, tears comes out. But she make fun of all these things. Now she says that" go and enjoy somewhere else. Where you can find happiness" but how can I forget her. And in a relation we have done everything whatever need to do. But I don't understand one thing that how she can forget all those days, all memories. & how can she happy without me. And why I m not. In 3 and half yrs relation she used to call me more than 500 times, message me. Always insist to meet. All these used to do. Now what happen? please help me doctors. I am in very bad trouble.

Hypnotherapist, DCS, BSIC, Advanced Trainee of Transactional Analysis, Advanced Skills in Counselling
Psychologist,
I fell in love. My relation had been going on before 3 years back. And now she is going to marry in her cast by next ...
From her behaviour it's very clear that she has moved on in life and doesn't have any need for you probably since you don't belong to her caste. My dear these are hard realities of life that once some people were very close to you and now they are no longer a part of your life. You would have also left some very close friends ehind when you finished school, college or changed houses. This is the circle of life and growing up and changing is one large part of it. Every change brings some losses and some gains. You will be better off by concentrating on what became better after she left and what you can do with your time. If you are under the impression that everyone gets to marry their first love. Then you will need to change that thinking. Look around you and you will find many such people who have gone through similar situations or worse and found ideal life partners in the most odd people. My advice to you is to forget and remember what was good in the relationship and her and move on to find someone who could settle down with you. Get going with your work because these are your golden years to establish yourself. If you remain in this state for too long, you could loose out on some good job offers, nice girls and some good friends who have helped you till now. If all this is not possible to do on your own, then find a counsellor and ask their help and guidance to get you back on track.
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I can't concentrate at studies. I was thinking of my future and worrying about it. And thinking that I will study at further in home. But when I was home I was thinking of mobile and going to social. please say some ways to concentrate in studies and in life.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
You need to have mind control and doing meditaion and yoga will help and use your willpower to avoid distractions like mobile and social site.Understand these are not for you future benefit
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I am 23 year old female. My boyfriend broke up with me and got married to another girl. I know that I have to move on. But still memories with him makes me depressed. I don't know what to do. Please help me.

MD - Psychiatry, M.B.B.S.
Psychiatrist, Delhi
I am 23 year old female. My boyfriend broke up with me and got married to another girl. I know that I have to move on...
Hello Lybrate user, I can understand your pain and anguish at the loss of a relationship. The emotional turmoil and surge of feelings can be very troublesome. However you are very correct in recognizing that you have to move on. But please do understand that your mind will take it's time in the process of grieving for the loss that it has entailed. Hence if less tba 2-3 months have elapsed please give yourselves time. The expectation of the modern day society that we must get up the next day, and everything will fall into its place is grossly mistaken. Please remember the age old adage that "time is one of the biggest healer" In the meanwhile please be around people who care for you like your family, friends etc, keep yourself engaged, keep up with regular exercise/yoga, healthy and regular meal times, and a regular routine, try to cultivate or reignite a hobby, do not be afraid or neglecting towards your pain, rather recognize them and tell yourself that "this too shall pass" write down your thoughts, do not please fall for a rebound relationship. However please consult a psychiatrist if any of the following is true for you- inability to get better even after 3-4 months, presence of ideas of self harm/death/suicide, gross impairment of day to day functions, unbearable or very significant distress, gross neglect of self care. Hope this helps you. Best wishes for your health and future.
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My sister 36 year old never go out anywhere she doesn' t have any confident herself she doesn' t have any interest in life she had face rejection in love life, she doesn' t want to go to doctor. She says she is ok. What to do please advice.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Her withdrawing is not at all a good sign. You can tell her that, if she is okay, she should be able to come out too. She is trying to brush you off. Now there are several options to consider doing: bring home a lot of people as friends, include the relatives also. If you bring her friends home, it will be ideal. She will find it difficult to ignore them or not to be hospital to them. If she was or is working, invite those colleagues too. As she gets comfortable with meeting people, she will gradually get out of her lack of confidence in relating to people. Organize parties, meetings, spiritual talks, get-togethers, functions, and prayer meetings at home, regularly and frequently, to literally bombard her with a social life, almost domesticated. This will have a telling effect over time. You have got to be patient, and give her some room. I don? T know the details of her love-life to comment on it but she has to move on and meet people to find another one to love? She was the loving kind once upon a time! In the meantime you could get a pet that you know she will like and let her only interact with it. Caring for the pet alone will be a full-time task, if she buys into it, fully.
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When some one tells lies I am getting very angry even some times. I am fighting with them and some time in my mind to kill them by telling lies, so I do not want to angry so much. I need a best cure for this?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Some of the "typical" responses to frustration include anger, quitting (burn out or giving up), loss of self-esteem and self-confidence, stress and depression. Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper ANGER: There is a saying "Frustration begets anger and anger begets aggression." Direct anger, is expressed toward the object perceived as the cause of the frustration. If a machine does not work, you might hit it or kick it. If someone gets in your way, you could verbally threaten them or push them aside. If the source of the frustration is too powerful or threatening for direct aggression, displaced aggression is often used. The aggression is redirected toward a less threatening and more available object. An angry person often acts without thinking. The person has given in to the frustration and they have given up restraint. Anger can be a healthy response if it motivates us to positive action but all too often the actions we engage in when angry are destructive. Indeed, if we could see a videotape of ourselves getting angry, the humiliation might well help cure us of anger. When you feel frustration building, you have to practice learned responses that lead to healthy actions instead of destructive ones. GIVING UP: Giving up on a goal can be productive if the goal is truly out of reach. However, more often giving up (quitting or being apathetic) is another form of giving in to frustration. When repeatedly frustrated, people can drop out of school, quit jobs, or move away. Apathy is giving up all of your goals, so you cannot be frustrated by trying to reach them. We live in difficult time and we have to be persistent in order to accomplish. Consider how many projects you began, and then gave up, because you became frustrated and lost patience. Make a list of things you started and quit because they seemed too difficult. Now calculate the disappointment and loss you suffered by not dealing with the frustration in a more healthy way. Try to remember that quitters never win, and winners never quit. Losing your temper means you're a quitter. LOSS OF CONFIDENCE: is a terrible frequent side effect of giving up and not fulfilling your goal. A loss of self-confidence and self-esteem, means that If we quit once, then the next time we plan a goal, we may not be able to accurately assess our ability to carry it out and we stop trusting ourselves and our own abilities. This became a self-fulfilling and self-destructive attitude. You need to be able to learn that when the going gets tough, you say to yourself "It is worth it!" and by following through, it not only gets the job done, but it builds self-confidence. STRESS: is the "wear and tear" our body and mind experiences as we adjust to the frustrations our continually changing environment. Too frequently, extreme, or prolonged frustration and stress strains us and generates distress signals. Our body experiences distress signals in a variety of ways, often in the form of: irritability, anger, fatigue anxiety, headache, depression, stomach aches, hypertension, migraines, ulcers, heart attacks, or colitis. DEPRESSION: Depression can affect almost every aspect of your life. It affects people of all ages, income, race, and cultures. Depression can affect the way you eat and sleep the way you feel about yourself, the way one think about things, and the way you interact with others. While we all feel depression at various appropriate times in our lives, excess or inappropriate depression cannot be easily dismissed or wished away. OTHER REACTIONS: abuse of drugs & alcohol is self-destructive and usually futile attempt at dealing with frustration, as are many eating and weight problems and addictions Whenever the immediate effects of the addictive behaviour wear off, users find themselves back in the same, or even worse, frustrating situation. Learning To Deal With Frustration It is unrealistic to believe you can rid yourself of frustration forever, but you can learn to do things to minimize your frustrations and to make sure you do not engage in unhealthy responses to frustration. You will need to learn to distinguish between what you hope will happen, what will probably happen, and what actually happened. Life inevitably has its ups and downs -- its moments of relaxation and times of tension. When you learn to truly accept this reality, you come one step closer to being able to deal with frustration in a healthy way. There are several types of problems that we encounter in everyday living: those which you know can be solved, those which you are not sure if they can be solved or not, those you know are totally out of your control, and those you are so confused about that you do not even know what the problem is. You need to be able to accurately assess your abilities to alter situations that prevent you from solving your problems and reaching your goal. Then you will be able to assess which of the types of problems you have encountered, and you will then be able to develop a realistic plan. Learning to take things in stride will also help you to be more content and happy which, in turn, will help you to more easily overcome anger and frustration. If you are upset, sad, anxious, or depressed you will have less patience and tolerance for everything and everybody. Treatment of Frustration Frustration and anger are fundamental emotions that everyone experiences from time to time. From a very early age, people learn to express frustration by copying the behaviour they see modelled around them, and by expressing frustration and angry behaviour and seeing what they can get away with. We all suffer from frustration, and being able to effectively deal with frustration is a very important skill to develop. Each person needs to learn how to control frustration, so that it does not control them. The following is a brief overview of types of frustration management programs and resources that have proved helpful in understanding and controlling frustration and anger. I have found several approaches to treatment that have been effective for my clients including: Individual and Group Therapy for Anger Management. A therapist who can observe and analyse your behaviour from an impartial perspective, can help you with your reality testing. A therapist knows many effective frustration and anger management strategies and will be able to help you develop a personalized set of strategies for changing both your thinking and behaviour. Depending on your needs, your therapist may work with you on breathing or meditation exercises to reduce frustration, safe and appropriate emotional and physical techniques to release frustration, communication, or cognitive restructuring (a method for disputing and changing the way you think). Relaxation and exercise Simple relaxation tools such as deep breathing and relaxing imagery can help calm down feelings of frustration and anger. Breathing deeply, from your diaphragm, will help while breathing from your chest won't relax you. While breathing, you can slowly repeat a calm word or phrase such as "relax," "calm down" or "take it easy." Non-strenuous exercise, like yoga, can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer. Strenuous and vigorous exercise can also help you to work off frustration and angry feelings. Frustration can have a highly damaging impact on our frame of mind. It can turn a positive person into a person who sees nearly everything as a problem. It can slow you down, inhibit your progress, and at times completely immobilize you. We can become so wound up with our frustration that we do not, and cannot, think or act rationally. Our frustration can often exacerbate a situation and create a vicious circle. If we are convinced that our actions are not working, no matter how hard we try, we are much more likely to reduce, rather than increase, our chances of success. Remember, you cannot eliminate frustration. In spite of all your efforts, things will happen that will cause you frustration and anger. Life is filled with frustration, pain, loss, and the unpredictable actions of others. You can't change that; but you can change the way you let such events affect you. If you feel that your degree of frustration is really out of control, if it is having an impact on your relationships and on important parts of your life, you might consider counselling to learn how to handle it better. Please contact me Privately on this site or another therapist.
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I am going through with mental depression from last one month as my girlfriend left me. I am unable to concentrate in any work and just spend my day thinking about the past. My mind has became very restless. Please help me with some medicine so that I can get my mind relax at time and concentrate on my career. Thank you.

MRCP (UK), MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Ghaziabad
I am going through with mental depression from last one month as my girlfriend left me. I am unable to concentrate in...
Hi Anyways as re meds .Pls see your family Dr. n he shld be able to help you on that front. Wishing you a bright career. Rgds.
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I have been living a low life and think I am in depression. Most of the time I keep myself busy with masturbation. My penis isn't that sensitive now. I tend to have a lot of mood swings as well and my taste changes frequently. How to confirm whether I am in depression or I have a bipolar?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I have been living a low life and think I am in depression. Most of the time I keep myself busy with masturbation. My...
You have depression and need antidepressants. If you feel depressed, it's best to do something about it — depression doesn't just go away on its own. In addition to getting help from a doctor or therapist, here are 5 things you can do to feel better. 1.Exercise. Take a 15- to 30-minute brisk walk every day — or dance, jog, or bike if you prefer. People who are depressed may not feel much like being active. In addition to getting aerobic exercise, some yoga poses can help relieve feelings of depression. Two other aspects of yoga — breathing exercises and meditation — can also help people with depression feel better. 2.Nurture yourself with good nutrition. Depression can affect appetite. One person may not feel like eating at all, but another might overeat. Proper nutrition can influence a person's mood and energy. So eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and get regular meals (even if you don't feel hungry, try to eat something light, like a piece of fruit, to keep you going). 3.Identify troubles, but don't dwell on them. Try to identify any situations that have contributed to your depression. When you know what's got you feeling blue and why, talk about it with a caring friend. Talking is a way to release the feelings and to receive some understanding. 4. Express yourself. With depression, a person's creativity and sense of fun may seem blocked. Exercise your imagination (painting, drawing, doodling, sewing, writing, dancing, composing music, etc.) and you not only get those creative juices flowing, you also loosen up some positive emotions. Take time to play with a friend or a pet, or do something fun for yourself. Find something to laugh about — a funny movie, perhaps. Laughter helps lighten your mood. 5. Try to notice good things. Depression affects a person's thoughts, making everything seem dismal, negative, and hopeless. If depression has you noticing only the negative, make an effort to notice the good things in life. Try to notice one thing, then try to think of one more. Consider your strengths, gifts, or blessings. Most of all, don't forget to be patient with yourself. Depression takes time to heal.
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What about nicotek nicotine gum as show in adds does it help quiting smoking and is it good?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate user. Nicotex nicotine gum is useful in quitting smoking. You can use it whenever you feel the urge to smoke. It is effective too. Take care.
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I have an mentally stressed on my mind how can I solve this problem to make recover from this problem and how to over come my stress.

BHMS
Homeopath,
I have an mentally stressed on my mind how can I solve this problem to make recover from this problem and how to over...
Dear lybrate user, try biochemic kali phos 6x tablets to get rid of your stress. Take 4 tablets, thrice daily, with a cup of lukewarm water.
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My husband is having a wired behaviour which leads to violence and stressful atmosphere at home. I am very scared at times As it is putting bad impact on my 2.5 years daughter. I need your expert support. Thanks.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
My husband is having a wired behaviour which leads to violence and stressful atmosphere at home. I am very scared at ...
You must both seek a counselor's help. If that person feels that he needs psychiatric help, then he can be directed to seek such help. If you suggested it, he may rebel and act violent towards you. If he refuses to behave himself, you can take immediate action even through the police, for domestic violence. If you do not act and always look afraid, he will only get worse and lose all control. He needs help and someone has to take some effective measures.
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I am suffering from work tension and lot of stress, and tension for the last 6 months.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am suffering from work tension and lot of stress, and tension for the last 6 months.
The stress that you feel is not dependent on the stressor i.e. the work. It is entirely dependent on your perception of stress. Life is difficult no doubt, as a general rule, but what we do adds to the stress in our response. We add to the stress of life instead of reducing it or learning to deal with it. Many of us follow a policy of avoidance. We cannot do that all of our lives. So the first thing to do is to change your perception. For example, look at it as a challenge that you would like to meet with a positive outlook. See everything as a gift from God to perform as though you are doing it for Him. God never gives us work to do beyond our capacity. Now you may argue that it is the company that is giving all the work. That is true in the overt sense, but if you look at it with spiritual eyes, you know that it is ultimately given by God. Secondly, build a good constitution mentally, emotionally and physically to combat stress. Eat healthily, sleep well, and exercise regularly. Talk about your emotions regularly to a good friend every day. Learn stress management techniques. Do Yoga and meditation. Pray every day to God to give you the strength, and offer your work as a prayer to Him – you will give your best and you will feel so satisfied when you do it well. You must also talk to your superior that the workload is getting beyond your means and that you need more personnel to support you. Finally, learn to delegate much or some of your work to subordinates. If you do not trust, you will find it difficult to delegate.
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