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I am 26 year male. I have serious problem in sex. I can't stay for long time. It just over in 2 minutes. Please solve my problem.
I recently noticed that I feel no sensation during ejaculation when having sex with my wife. I just ejaculate, but no feeling or sensation. It started recently. Is anything wrong with me?
Hi I'm male 40 old, I have a psychological problem, dependent mentality mainly depends on females. So fall in lot of troubles with this problem. Please save me.
With the fast changing scenario and advancement of research, the definition of ailments are also becoming precise. Earlier, one term 'Impotency' was used in wider sense to define all sexology related problems, such as erectile dysfunction, low libido, low sperm count, infertility, and the inability to produce a child in both males and females. However today, with the advancement of research each problem has its own definition. Impotency is the condition where you suffer from a sexual dysfunction. It can cause stress and might undermine your confidence when you and your partner have a sexual encounter. It might also cause uneasiness between the two of you or embarrassment for having a dysfunction. In men, impotency is mostly in the form of erectile dysfunction whereas in women it is the inability to get pregnant. It may be due to a physical condition or an emotional trauma that you might be facing.
Here are the two broad divisions of the causes of impotency:
- Psychological Causes: Depression, anxiety or stress might be the major psychological causes for impotency. Also various mental disorders might take a toll on potency and your sexual libido. A sexual dysfunction might just start very suddenly after suffering from any psychological trauma. A very common psychological problem which men face at least once in their lifetime is a condition called performance anxiety. You become extremely conscious about whether you will be able perform well as the society expects men to take an upper hand while having sex. This burdens you and you get anxious about your performance in bed, causing you to suffer from a dysfunction. In cases of a marital dispute or lack of communication with your partner might also be a reason of an occasional dysfunction.
- Physical Causes in women: The physical causes may or may not be curable naturally. Sometimes surgeries are required to cure these causes. Some medicines have certain side effects which can cause a dysfunction to form. Often times not enough blood flows to the reproductive organs which results in impotency. Certain nervous and hormonal disorders also affect your potency. Disorders like Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, blocked fallopian tubes, hormonal imbalances causing irregular periods, or improper egg implantation can cause impotency. In these cases it is extremely difficult for the women to become pregnant, i.e., you will not be able to conceive.
- Physical Causes in men: Having a low sperm count is the most common factor which results in impotency. Hormonal disorder like hypogonadism which results in a low sperm count is also a contributing factor. If you have a blockage in the testicles, it will again affect the sperm count negatively. Improper ejaculation is another common cause of impotency.
Although impotency may be extremely disheartening, you can be treated for it and have your own family eventually.
I want to be a sexologist. But I'm shy. And I don't know how will I face my parents and relatives. I love sex and love sexologist job.
I leave habit of masturbation before one week but I am facing some problems of seepage in. And bad smell it occurs when I come in contact of sexual view tell me any cure.
I am a 30 years old male, my problem is masturbation for pennies, these things I need to stop. And my pennies also is very small, I can't do the sex with my wife properly. Please help me what treatment I need to take.
Am 19 years old I have a penis problem . I had suffered a lot with my micro penis it has only 2-2.5 cms it's very short. But it was big when it gets stiff (8-10 cms). I don't know why this happens But I was suffered a lot with that When I went to toilet I get tensed that if my surrounded will see my penis it gets problem to me I have a doubt that my penis doesn't opens it opens at some extent only Some part of my penis inner skin has attached with outer skin that's the reason will my penis has short I think I have a bad habit that I do masturbation 2-4 times per week. Please give me a best answer why this happens.
I am 30 year old male and my problem is when I do sex with my girlfriend its ejaculate very early at first time and the second time its take little bit time. And I want to know the reason behind this problem. So please solve my problem. thinking you.
I wanted to ask if I would sex with my girl friend with out any protection and I doubt that she might get pregnant and she took precautions tablet so do that have any side effect.
I am 23 years old male. I want to ask about penis enlargement. My current erct size is 5.5" and I want to increase 2-3 inches more. Is there any medicine or any treatment for that?
Sir my problem is my testis are very pain. I recently consult a doctor. He said you are in bilateral Grade-1 varicocele. He see my ultra scanning reports and said. And no evidence of hydrocele in both sides. He said no need to operation for grade-1. But trobuled with pain. Please give me tablet details and precautionary measures for my problem.
My friend is facing few symptoms since last 1 year. She complains about anal itching, pain while urinating and odour vaginal discharge regularly. Can you please help us in finding out what the exact problem is?
Hello I am 21 years old boy with a bad habit for masturbation from almost 8 years. Some time once a day or sometime twice or thrice, If I don't do this I don't feel comfortable. And now I got to know that my climax reaches within a minute or two and also I feel erectile dysfunction and when I had sex with my partner I only remained in erected for few seconds, even when I was doing sex but my penis was still not erected like it was before whenever I get feeling. And I reached to a climax within 20 25 seconds as I inserted the penis in to her. I also do exercise a very heavy weight lifting from last year and trying to lose weight but I only lost 7 8 kgs. Please help me out as I am really worried about my erection and climax timing. Regards.
Hi Dr. Thank you for last solution provided. This time we had contact on ovlution day n Dr. gave me sustain tb for 10 days to be inserted in vagina. I just want to know what can be the symptomps that I am pregnant. Please help.
Today I underwent Sonography. The following were the impression of the Test, 1. Prostate gland is enlarged in size and texture. No focal lesion is seen. Estimated volume of the prostate is 50 cc. Pre void 217 cc Post void 23 cc (insignificant) Conclusion: Prostatomegaly (50 cc). I want to know whether the problem can be solved by medication or have to undergo any surgery. I am 60 years old.
Tips for lost energy or interest in sex by Dr. Vaibhav lunkad
Nothing is fatal or final so never ever give up, my dear patients, of any age or problems whatsoever. All the physical problems can be made easy by attitude towards the problems-that means how you take and solve them. Problems or people always appear hard nuts to crack at the first impression but it needs sportiness of 100% to please anyone or crack any nut. Never duck out or go into a shell by reacting to anything. Never say immediately it's all over or just get out of my life, as the other person coming into your life could be even still worse or even hiv positive. The best part of hiv positive people is that they are at least positive in something and they are better than those people who see negative in everything.
Just start your day by saying I am open and free and not carrying any blocks in my head or heart. Secondly recharge your mind by walks, jogging, yoga, pranayam, cold water baths, massages, perfumes, meditations, and completing daily chores without any sort of procrastination. Thirdly eat light raw foods and only warm liquids or otherwise digestion and activity will slow down badly. Fourthly ease in all ways,&nbsp;work, playfulness, romantic talk, smile, behaviour, self confidence, self-respect, a little self-love without any doubting sucking angry attitude or talk makes heaven even in hell. Fifthly herbs, cow milk, cow ghee etc with your doctor's advice will add spark too.
Sixth a kerala type or variety playful massage removes energy and mood blocks very nicely from my personal experience and also the communication blocks and starts the sex or romance all over again.
Aroma baths or salt water baths and herbal vaginal douche removes those smells which can put off anybody totally.
And remember more important than sex is body play, hugging, cuddling, patting, clitoral fingering to climax, touching all over, kissing, smooching, and love talk, eye to eye contact, showing interest in each other. There should be more of friendly playfulness than partnering for sex performance as a formality or responsibility or addiction.
If you have liked please like Dr. Vaibhav lunkad fb page with feedback too and just start everyday deleting the past memory totally and you are sexy all-ways.