Thank you for your answer about herpes and testing. If I haven't had lesions for over year and maybe have an outbreak once every three years, that my negative tested husband won't be infected as long as we aren't intimate while lesions are present? He still didn't get it even though one time a lesion of present that I want aware of until after the fact. I really just want to understand and feel confident that if he and I divorce, no other woman will suffer what I have.