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I'm 23 years old female. I got married 6 months back and it was a love marriage. My parents were completely happy with the proposal and both sides equally consented. We were classmates in the college and had just completed the course. Bt he was able to fetch good job and so didn't want to delay the marriage. Bt my parents didn't want to announce it as a" love marriage" as we both were too young and also it's the first one of the sort in the family and also due to other conservative thoughts. They were afraid of the judgement of the relatives (which of course didn't bother me. But I agreed to their wish and even had to keep it as a secret with my close cousins (which was a great pain ).I didn't want to do this but I was forced. I was also forced to warn our friends to not give any signs. During the wedding I felt like they all came to know the truth as our classmates attended the wedding.(I felt so frm their attitude) .I don't know if it's true or if l felt so just because I bear that suffering or if they had some other issues. Anyways I couldn't enjoy even a moment of my special day. Now I don't want to be in between them .I don't feel like facing my cousins or attending a family function. What should I do? I always wanted to express the truth. I feel guilty that I had to restrict our friends from celebrating their special occasion as well as hiding behind a veil in front of the relatives which was again against my wish. Everyone said me that it's not a big deal and I'm just over thinking. Bt it's seriously haunting me now.

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Masters In Clinical Psychology

Psychologist•Lucknow
Now you are married
Just forget everything you don't have to tell each one of them personally
If they ask or y want to disclose say the real thing don't lie
I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Connect with me through text or audio on Lybrate app
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Sexologist•Hyderabad
Women with large fibroids may feel heaviness or pressure in their lower abdomen or pelvis. Often this is described as a vague discomfort rather than a sharp pain.
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Hello ,
This is likely due to hymenal rupture after first intercourse and shall subside in 3-5 days , just keep the local area clean and wash regularly .
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Psychologist•Mathura
i really understand your pain. but the fact remains, she is no longer interested. she must be having her reasons but this is heart-breaking news for you.

very strongly advise- if you really love her, be happy in her happiness - that is what true love is all about- you always want to keep your partner happy.

this will give you tremendous relief from pain as you will be giving her what she wants most- freedom from her relationship with you.
so, be a giver, not beggar. the mor...more
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If the bleeding is heavy, you need to give medicines to stop the bleeding. Your gynaecologist will help you with this problem.
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Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Loosing someone dear and near causes grief. Grief leads to disappointment. Grief related disappointment manifests symptoms as in the case of depression. But disappointment symptoms are far shorter in duration than depression. These symptoms will vanish in some days or weeks. Don’t worry. Physical exercise, outdoor games, entertainment, hobbies etc could help you divert your attention. I suggest cognitive therapy. Take care.
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Yes Crina-NCR 10 mg Tablet is used in heavy menstrual bleeding, pain during menstruation, endometriosis.
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Psychologist•Bangalore
If you know what your parents objection is about, then talk about it before making a decision. Parents always carry a lot of wisdom and it is good to hear them out. You as youngsters will have a lot of intelligence and in the combination of their wisdom and your intelligence, you can come to a happy consensus. If all else fails get someone influential on your side to get involved. I am so happy to hear that you want to live: love should ideally bring life not death. Never give up on discussions....more
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Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Loosing someone dear and near causes grief. Grief leads to disappointment. Grief related disappointment manifests symptoms as in the case of depression. But disappointment symptoms are far shorter in duration than depression. These symptoms will vanish in some days or weeks. Don’t worry. Physical exercise, outdoor games, entertainment, hobbies etc could help you divert your attention. I suggest cognitive therapy. Take care.
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