Personality Disorder Questions

Hello. I can understand your condition. The feelings of helplessness that you are describing are result of depressed mood and negative thinking. It happens sometimes that our minds think over the past too much and this makes us feel negative and low about ourselves. Thinking about past events may be considered a normal phenomena but when this gets out of control and we keep reverting to thoughts about past happenings, then we find ourselves caught up in a circle of negative thinking. We are not ...more

Stress is the major by product of our current modern life style.
There is so much competition and comparison.
Int his situation it is difficult at times to cope up and work towards bringing the best out in us.
Instead of self diagnosing yourself and thinking worst, I would suggest you to try following things and see if you can bring yourself back to more balanced and growth promoting state.
If need be you may even talk to a psychologist so that he/she can provide you better under...more

I am not sure of a doctor in bangalore but yes patients with borderline have difficulty accepting their problem and few visits are of no help. She needs to seek continues therapy. It will help her.

Medicine works internal changes. It helps reduce internal frustration. But we maintain external frustration outside it may effect on the internal aspects. After taking good medicine. Your thinking is frustrational status then medicine it will not work properly. So psychotherapy helps to improve external conditions. Life style modification helps to improve your life status. So better to take psychotherapy also. It has no side effects. Best of luck.

Probably, if you do not combine medication with counseling. Both can be crippling diseases if not treated and if treated early the prognosis is good. So quickly visit a psychiatrist and seek his/her opinion and you must then follow the medication prescribed. Comply with all the medical prescriptions and work in tandem with a counselor for a long time and learn coping skills and techniques to handle the daily challenges you will face. There are certain adaptations that will suit you during the el...more

Dear lybrate user,
nice of you to write to me and express your issue of concern. The fact that you have taken out the time to write to me about is shows that you would like to resolve the issue. I appreciate the concern for your kids and family. View life and the events that you pass through in an objective way. Be a simple observer and assist all especially your family members deal with their issues.
Take some time out and develop some goals (long term / short term) for yourself. Live y...more

Medical college hospitals offer good treatment at affordable costs. Go for it. Do not waste time and stressing over it.

Dear lybrate user, you said that your family is respectable family and what do you think who made your family respectable in society, of course parents. Parents are the root of the family. They grown up you and made you able to do a such prestigious course like btech. Then why you think like that. I think problem in your case is of understanding only. Talk openly to them about the real problem, you can take help of your other relative whom you and your parents both trust. Actually this is a type...more

Relax, dear lybrate user. I think you are exaggerating small things into greater proportions. Of course, I understand that your father must not have uttered that word even when you are alone. The only thing you can do with this is to forgive him and explain him how you hurt because of him, and also make a humble reqeuest not to do it again. Then, the people in front of whom your father used that word are busy with their life businness and issues. In fact, both your father and other people must h...more

Hi,
you did not expect tour father to label you like that which led to your withdrawn behavior, lack of motivation and feeling stigmatised. See, you have a long life to go a long journey to complete. After birth we are on our own. You have to do yourself good by managing your illness. I'm sure a nice doctor will understand you. Stick to one doctor. Take proper medication. Full course and you will be able to overcome. Also its necessary to take psychotherapy/ counseling for which you can cons...more