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Health Query

I am 23 years old, started having sex at 21 and had multiple partners. I do get aroused and have a tingly sensation in my vagina but don't enjoy masturbating or having sex ~ I just don't feel anything. Even after having a good foreplay I jus don't feel anything. Neither during the foreplay nor the sex. I don't even enjoy kissing or those long tight hugs, cuddling and spooning. Can you please tell me what's wrong with me?

Dr. G.R. Agrawal95%(38414 ratings)

DHMS (Hons.)

Homeopathy Doctor•Patna

Hi, Lybrate user, you might be feeling guilty of your act and still, go for the same act ,unwillingly. Tk, homoeopathic medicine, underlying:@ sepia 30ch -5 drops, thrice. Avoid,junk food, alcohol and nicotine. Tk, care.

43 people found this helpful

Asked for female, 36 years old from Trivandrum

I'm 34years old working with a bank. I have two kids aged 7years and 1yr. I was on ocp after first delivery and now on depo shots. I had gestational diabetes and pih during pregnancies controlled by diet and medicine respectively. My husband is in USA, gone after our second kid was born. I've gone there on vacation once and now he's here on vacation. I'm still breastfeeding my 1years old. My problem is I'm not feeling sexually aroused or feeling for having sex. I feel like sleeping instead or just cuddle with my husband. He's all for romance and physical relationship when I'm not feeling so. Even foreplay doesn't affect me. I'm so much regretting this. But I'm not sure breastfeeding or depo shots who is the culprit. I need help finding the problem.

Dr. Honey Punjabi90%(1580 ratings)

BHMS,NDDY

Homeopath•Jaipur

Dear Nisha Ji some time in body many changes are occur it is hormonal problem it can short out don't worry you should take homeopathy medicine graphitis 200single dose you will feel better if you have any questions about your problem you can ask me

156 people found this helpful

Asked for male, 24 years old from Bhiwandi

Premature ejaculation and early discharge of sperm before physical intercourse. Sometimes am cuddling with my partner on bed due excitement or ejaculation without hav sex sperm falls. In teenage most of the times I did masturbate I think thats problem am facing now. please suggest am suffering mentally due to this problem. Tomorrow am going to hav sex with my girlfriend please suggest at least any tablet for long time erection for tomorrow only. Am feeling very shame in front of her thats why. please its my request to everyone. After this am going to consult doctor but I hav to face tomorrow day.

Dr. Sonali Khomane93%(7148 ratings)

BHMS, DEMS

Homeopath•Pune

Premature ejection is often due to physical changes occuring in the body due to aging. Men over age 30 may begin to have problems even though their sex lives were fine when they were younger. The problem is often an inadequate blood supply in the penis. When the arteries in the penis become partially clogged with fat and cholesterol, maintaining an erection becomes more difficult. When this occurs, your brain tells your body that you'd better ejaculate before you lose your erection, and a patter...more

Asked for male, 45 years old from Motihari

At the age 12, I saw a movie in which there was a clip that shown, a father was loving, cuddling his 10 years old son in a way that my brain absorbed that scene as an adult male sexually exploiting a young little boy. From that day, I feel like sexually enjoying with a young boy. However, in reality, I didn't take up any such step. But I do feel whenever I see a good innocent looking face of a young boy, my eyes stay over his face. Am I a pedo or gay ? How I can get rid of this menace? please advise.

Mr. Rajan P93%(895 ratings)

M.Sc - Applied Psychology, P.G.Dip.in Gu...read more

Psychologist•Madurai

You are neither a pedo nor a gay as far as your impulses are under control. Most of us have one or more aberrations in our thought patterns which we could not easily spit out from our mind. List out the psychological, social consequences of both the child being abused and the person who abuses him (if it is your child.). You will never even think of it again.

Asked for female, 28 years old from Noida

I got married in January this year. My husband talks to me lovingly, cuddle and kiss me but never makes out. Upon coercing, he indulged in the act one day but lost erection midway. In this 7 month of our marriage I have never seen him talking leadership in such matters. Upon discussion he says that he is in stress and gets tired. I do not really understand this. When my pressure increased he told me that he had read online and shilajeet tablets will help him move out of getting tired issues. One point to note here is that in normal times, he is not that getting tired easily sort of a person. He can walk and do exercise for a much more time then me. What is the problem with him? Please help me? Is he gay?

Dr. Nisha Khanna86%(57 ratings)

Ph. D - Psychology

Psychologist•Delhi

Hello Lybrate-user, The intimacy issues with partner can be resolved if you seek for Couples Counseling or Marriage Counseling. To understanding the reason behind why your partner doesn't engage in physical intimacy and how can both of you work towards developing that bond it is essential to go for therapy. Along with visiting us at our clinic, we also provide online as well as telephonic counseling sessions.

189 people found this helpful

Asked for male, 0 years old from Hyderabad

I am 18 and virgin. Me and my boyfriend Made out 2-3 days back. We were wearing our bottom wears. He was in his Underwear and shorts and I was in my legging and panties. But our upper body was naked. We was not even involved in dry sex. We just cuddled each other and kissed each other and had a little foreplay. Next Day I was feeling pain in my abdomen and then the other day I was perfectly fine but I did a crash diet and at night I suddenly felt head spin and I vomited. I am really really worried That can it make me pregnant? Or its just because of crash diet I felt weak? Please tell its not possible to get pregnant this way? Right?

Dr. Arvind Singh Shekhawat93%(4143 ratings)

BHMS, Ph.D Micro

Sexologist•Bikaner

If seman didnot ejuclate in the vegina then there is no chance of pregnancy. Book an appointment for better sexual treatment.

66 people found this helpful

Asked for male, 29 years old from Navi Mumbai

Hi doctor, I had physical without taking precautions. Lights wer off. After physical, partner said, there wer blood spots on blankets. I went to washroom n checked, I had blood mark on below my penis tip, (not on tip or side by- it was just downside) I assumed blood on my tip, might be becoz I rubbed my penis on her clothes or while getting cuddles n all. So might be that. But I cleaned my penis n blood mark went away, there wer no harm on penis. Just want to know, what could be possibilities about blood? It is mine blood or her? This is just for my knowledge n to get things clear. Please guide. Thank you.

Dr. Satyan Nanal94%(3429 ratings)

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surge...read more

Sexologist•Pune

There are few possibilities need evaluation come online for better understanding of your problem chat now clarify your douts take proper consult.

167 people found this helpful

Asked for male, 26 years old from Kolkata

My girlfriend has 23 or 24 days menstrual cycle and her last period started on 1st nov, 2021 and we do foreplay on 6th nov evening that was 48 hours after her period stopped and her recent period has started on 24 nov at afternoon but she thought that her recent flow is lighter than usual and clotting discharge is also reduced and i'm posting this on 25 nov at 11 am and by that time her flow is continuous. No other physical abnormalities have been happened yet and we also do some cuddling on 24 nov evening. Is there any signs or symptoms of pregnancy? What could be the right measures we can take right now? Kindly reply asap as we are too anxious and tensed.

Dr. Girish Dani94%(16521 ratings)

MD - Obstetrtics & Gynaecology, FCPS, DG...read more

Gynaecologist•Mumbai

From your description - practically no chance of pregnancy.
If any doubt get blood test done serum hcg-beta.

23 people found this helpful

Health Query

Im a 18 year old female, I was a virgin till 3 weeks ago. Me and my bf had oral sex a few days ago. I gave him a blowjob and he ejaculated in my mouth, which I swallowed. After that I washed my mouth and drank some water. We cuddled and kissed each other after, we had a make out. Then we went for round 2 and he performed cunnilingus on me. This happened after an hour of me going down on him. I'm worried because sperm can survive inside the mouth for some time, what if I had some leftover sperm in my mouth which transferred into his mouth because of the kissing and then into my vagina causing me to get pregnant. It was 8 days after my period and I was not on the pill and im worried, please help me out.

Dr. Rahul Gupta93%(46318 ratings)

MD-Ayurveda, Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medic...read more

Sexologist•Haldwani

Hello-
sperm is digested by organism present in saliva so there is no need to get panicked as it can not cause pregnancy. Going for the pill might not be ideal.

Asked for male, 34 years old from Delhi