Lybrate Logo
Get the App
For Doctors
Login/Sign-up
Book Appointment
Treatment
Ask a Question
Plan my Surgery
Health Feed
tab_logos
Health Feed
tab_logos
Find Doctors
tab_logos
Health Packages
AllQ&AsTipsQuizzes
Facebook Icon
Twitter Icon
Telegram Icon
Linkedin Icon

Grief counseling Health Feed

Health Query
Share
Bookmark
Report

मैं काफी दिनों से डिप्रेशन में रह रहा हूं थोड़ी थोड़ी परेशानी और बात को लेकर काफी चिंतित हो जाता हूं हमेशा मन में नकारात्मक सोच मन में आता रहता है जिसके कारण जीवन नीरस लगने लगा है ज़रा सी बात पर क्रोध आ जाता है इन सभी के चलते बी पी लो रहता है और कमजोरी रहती है जबकि मैं लगभग एक साल से डिप्रेशन की दवा(olanzapine 10 escitalopram 10)ले रहा हूं कोई खास फायदा नहीं है

Profile Image

Ph.D Psychology, M.Phil - Psychology

Psychologist•Jaipur
banner-image
Dear user, aap abi bot chhote ho or pichhle 2 saal se medicine le rhe ho, koi problem hoti h to hum medicines lete h but kuchh time k lie, unko apni life ka hissa nhi bnana chahiye. Sirf dwai kha kr aap apne mind se ni ld skte uske lie aapke ander ek strong will power or awareness ka hona jaruri h, counseling ki help se aap ye dono chizo ko achhe se samjh skte ho or improve bhi kr skte ho, aapko apne thoughts ko smjhne me help milegi or future me bhi depression anxiety jesi problems ko control k...more
553 people found this helpful
Asked for male, 25 years old from Noida
Share
Bookmark
Report

I have been in a relationship with a girl since 2017. Then for work purpose I moved to other state. She started fighting on everything. Then she stopped to talk for 3 months suddenly in year 2019. She will not pick phones neither will reply. I was dying for her meanwhile. Then again in june 2019 came back to talk and I thought everything will be normal but again she left me after fighting and didn't gave me a chance to explain. Then in september 2019 I came to know she is in different relationship with some guy. Later I came to know she was with relationship from august 2019 only. Meanwhile all this time, I lost sleep. I was unable to sleep. I will remain awake all the time. And even if I get little sleep I will get nightmares. I had an average of 30-40 min of sleep daily only. She came back in november 2019 to me and promised me that she will never leave me again. I told her everything, how I was feeling. And how low I was feeling that I would consider killing myself too. For her only left all good job offer and decided to come back to delhi, I had resigned from job and she knows that well. But she left me again in january 2019 for the same guy. And told that guy that I emotionally blackmailed him. For some reason I had to take train instead of aeroplane and for those 3 days I kept on crying on train. When I landed back in delhi I was hospitalized as I was getting unconscious. Doctors told me he to relax. Then she came back again in april and again the same promises and she left me in june. For all these times she projected me wrong. I knew that she will leave me but I have become too dependant on her. I can not even think of living without her. I keep on constantly crying. I have lost confidence. I can't talk anyone properly. If someone says me anything I breakdown. I am unable to focus on anything. I know she doesn't love me. But still I am unable to unlove her. I am seeking help. Please help me. Please help me to get out of this cycle. I am on verge of destroying everything my personal relation my career.

Profile Image

BHMS

Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
Now the choice is your whether you wants to spoil your life for someone who doesn't have any feeling or care for you? Or you wants to give your life a chance so that you can achieve something in life, remember one thing it's the hard time of your character in this situation your character comes out either you will be strong or weak, you have a bright future but your spoiling for nothing, remember nothing is permanent even not your sorrow it will go by time but if you lost the time you will lost ...more
Health Query
Share
Bookmark
Report
Profile Image

MBBS, MD Psychiatry

Psychiatrist•Roorkee
banner-image
If the medicine is suiting you and you are psychologically stable, desvenlafaxine is safe. Regarding weight and high cholestrol you should do life style modifications - walking/ skiiping/ jogging and avoid sugary foods. Take more fibre and less carbohydrates.
273 people found this helpful
Asked for male, 18 years old from Warangal
Share
Bookmark
Report
Profile Image

BHMS

Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
banner-image
Don't worry start doing yoga, wake up early go for walk ,do yoga, visit a psychologist you need counseling.
Asked for male, 30 years old from Kolkata
Share
Bookmark
Report

Dear doctors, I am post copd patient, I depressed over 6 years, I have social anxiety, low self confidence, heavy mood swing and emotional trauma.in the year 2017 I appointed total 15 doctors due to lots off physical problem, in 2018 I have done skin cyst surgery. And last 5 years I faced more than 10 accident with car. I have some family problem due to carrier issue. I suffered lots in last 6,7 years. But I over come from all physical problem but I not over come my my mental problem, I am also habituated taking daily medicine, now I am taking l arginine with multivitamin, last check up post covid doctors said all is well ,covid does not affect your lungs. Blood pressure 120/80. Pulse rate also ok. Sir I want over come my mental issue .i do not want to meet others, I want stay at home my, angriness day to day increase. Due to heavy depression in covid, after covid I made a short tour, but that not much help. I am trying to cure but I failure. I have one question shall I take sertraline 50 mg for 10 days after that increase 100 mg in last 20 days?

Profile Image

Ph.D Psychology, M.Phil - Psychology

Psychologist•Jaipur
banner-image
Dear user you are talking about taking medicines but how long you would take medicines? Medicines are not a proper solution for your problem. When we are aware about our problem we are able to control but we have to control it in a proper way. You are too young and taking these tablets, it's not good for your physical as well as your mental health. If you don’t want to take medication for life time then please wake up yourself, medicines are not a perfect solution for mental health, you have t...more
Asked for female, 58 years old from Delhi
Share
Bookmark
Report
Profile Image

MBBS, DPM

Psychiatrist•Bangalore
banner-image
Dear lybrate-user,
all tablets have side effects and interactions. Some side effects may be beneficial to you. You have to tolerate the side effects for the sake of the benefit they give. Major side effect on organs like thyroid, kidneys and parathyroid will be monitored by your psychiatrist periodically. There are plenty of alternatives - each of them side effects on its own.
I have already informed you that psychiatrist's tests.
431 people found this helpful
Asked for female, 38 years old from Delhi
Share
Bookmark
Report
Profile Image

BHMS

Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
Well it's very common that phase ur going through,,, I think u should talk to ur husband regarding fate of the relationship,, it will be better for u,, try to be indulge with ur baby as much as u can but it is very difficult I know that,, but for ur baby u have to do it
23 people found this helpful
Asked for male, 24 years old from Noida
Share
Bookmark
Report
Profile Image

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd, Transact...read more

Psychologist•Bangalore
I think you have a problem with anger and may be it is there from childhood. Suicide is never an option and intense therapy is highly recommended. Pleases meet with a doctor and counselor immediately and do cooperate with both to your utmost. Identify the pain and deal with it soon. I think your anger is probably the most important emotion to deal with right now. You must exercise regularly, eat healthily, sleep well and live somewhat stress-free.
473 people found this helpful
book_appt_icon
Book appointment with top doctors for Grief counseling treatment
View fees, clinic timings and reviews
chat_icon

Ask a free question

Get FREE multiple opinions from Doctors

posted anonymously
Pristyn Care Banner