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I meet a guy in matrimony, we have been taking since 2019, he was working in delhi, once myself and my family went to meet his family. There was not much response but still he called and we spoke, last years when he lost his job he came bangalore n stayed with me for 5 months then we both went to his place, but his family has issues within themselves, too much fight and arguments, also the guy he starts drinking from morning after he lost job and smokes, am not able to understand him now coz he says things which I cannot think is fruitful or productive. I returned back bangalore alone as I was not feeling happy and peace coz of fights (arguments). Now each and every time we talk some arguments happens, though I can't think of leaving him. I have become aggressive and when I want sometime alone am not able to. May be I don't want to talk to him or may b I don't like what he does, his family has lots of problem and complains. I need a peaceful life I am 34 n want to get settled but not like this.

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General Physician•Delhi
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Hi although this is not a medical problem but still I would like to answer.
As you have described that you like the person but not what he has become.
I would suggest you to talk to him seriously about your concerns and make a final decision based on his view for your future.
Storing your feelings and your fears with yourself will slowly start affecting your body and cause mental stress and harm.
I hope this was helpful
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I got married 3 years back (arranged marriage). My husband is the only son to his parents. I live with my husband and in-laws. My mother in law is a mental patient. If she shouts at my husband & his dad, my husband takes her words seriously & starts fighting with her rudely like breaking things near to him or keeps hitting his own hands on the wall. My husband gets very upset by her words and gets angry. (knowing her mental condition). My father in law is tired of telling my husband not to fight with his mom as she is a patient. My father in law can't leave my husband and his mom alone at home and go anywhere. If my husband starts fighting with his mom, someone should be there to control him. Since my mother in law is a mental patient, she wants to dominate others. If anyone goes against her, she starts shouting and crying thinking others are neglecting her. All she wants is love. She gets jealous if I am happy with my husband because she thinks her son may forget her. So she is not happy with me and my husband's relationship. I didn't know all this before marriage, my husband should have told me about this before marriage but he didn't. I married my husband and all I want is to live a happy and peaceful life. I don't want any expensive things. My mother in law wants me to be with her all the time & she doesn't let me live with my husband. 1 or 2 days it's fine. I can not sacrifice my married life for her. I tried to convince her but she is not getting convinced. If she doesn't get convinced in this matter, she gets upset and starts shouting. If she gets upset, my husband also gets upset and starts fighting either with me or his mom. I don't know why. I asked my husband not to get upset deeply as I am his future too. He says "listen to my mom and do what she says, otherwise divorce me" if I listen to her, she will be in good mood and my husband will also be in good mood. To keep her in good mood, I can't sacrifice my life for her. If my husband doesn't get upset even if she gets upset or tensed, he will be in good mood and I can live a normal life with him. But I don't understand why my husband gets upset if his mother gets upset. He gets so upset by her words that he either becomes completely absent minded or starts fighting with her or with me very rudely. In that case someone should be there to control him. Can you please answer me, why my husband does so or would any man do the same thing as my husband?

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Ayurvedic Doctor•Bilaspur
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shruti ji its really serious matter. but belive me your husban d is normal he does't have mental condition . due to some unaspected stree . all those thing happen. may be your husband thing you can make happy to her mother when he was outside. there may be also chances to dendency from your mother in law she doesnt fell happy when you both are happy. finally its irritating frequently in short time. just hope your good time will come soon.
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Hi. I am 28 years old. Mujhe pichle 16 saal se thyroid hai. Mai thyrox 75 mg regularly leti hu. Meri prolactin level hai 34. Mujhe pahle period har month 28 th day pe atte the aur 7 days me bleeding band bhi hoo jati thi. But pichle kuch month se mujhe kisi month pe 29 days pe to kisi month pe 31 days pe period aa rahe hai aur 7 days me bleeding band hoo jati hai. But mujhe period bilkul 28 th days se 31 days andar har month period atte hii hai. Mujhe period me aur ovalution ke time pe chote chote 4 yea 5 acne atte hai forehead pe aur chin pe. Lekin mujhe hamesha se hi hairfall jada hota hai. Kabhi kabhi hairfall bilkul ruk jata hai to kabhi kabhi bohot hairfall hote hai. Lekin mujhe dar lag raha hai ke kahi mujhe pcod yea pcos to nehi hai na. Please mujhe boliye ke mujhe pcod yea pcos hai bhi yea nehi.

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Endocrinologist•Dharwad
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Hello, thanks for the query.
I have seen the details mentioned. However, few important things are not given like: 1)current tsh, t3 & t4 levels. 2) lh, fsh & testosterone levels (if not checked, please get them done). 3) lipid profile & 4) an ultrasound examination of ovaries. These will help in identifying if there is pcod or not.
In hypothyroidism some times prolactin levels do go up. But if the levels are too high, then need to be treated with a specific drug for that.\further in pcod...more
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Endocrinologist•Dharwad
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Mr. lybrate-user, thanks for the query.
I have seen the details mentioned. However, those are very non specific. There is a need to know actual tsh & t3 & t4 levels, without which no comments can be made. So please come back with specific details. Thanks.
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Psychologist•Noida
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Stop caring too much.
Always smile back or laugh at people trying to depress you with their words or other activities. It will help you to avoid them and enhance your confidence. Do not forget to make eye contact :p.
Listen to your favourite music and spend your free time with your parents, because at the end only your parents will support you in your good / bad times.
Try to hangout or have walk with your pet if you have one :). You will learn what unconditional love is! you will fo...more
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Psychologist•Palakkad
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Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic but be serious about the symptoms. Consult your psychologist for physical investigation. Please provide more information so that we can start the diagnosis process and the treatment. I am here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. I will help you in overcoming your pr...more
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Psychiatrist•Thrissur
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Not much side effect you can continue Exercise is very important for 1.5 hours
Stress patients worry too much...Stress In today’s day & age where stress is high, feelings of frustration can emerge. It is our perception that can change our current negative situation into a healthy & positive one. Another way of perceiving these feelings of frustration can be by looking at them as an opportunity to push ourselves to go that little extra mile until we achieve our objective. However, there are t...more
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Homeopathy Doctor•Hooghly
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Wake up early go for walk or jogging in the morning, start doing yoga, start doing meditation, listen to soft music, go for a vacation, make urself bzyy in your work, read motivational stories, this will help, but meditation is most important.
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Homeopathy Doctor•Noida
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Do thyroid profile, cbc, blood sugar fasting from lab. Follow this 1. Don't take tea empty stomach. Eat something like a banana (if you are not diabetic) or any seasonal fruit or soaked almonds and a glass of water first thing in the morning (within 10 mins of waking up). No only biscuits or rusk will not do. 2. Don't overeat 3. Take your breakfast every day. Don't skip it. U should eat whatever your mother or grandparent eat in bfast. I mean to say whatever is your traditional food. If punjabi ...more
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