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A common cold, exhaustion, stress, hunger, sleep deprivation, even allergies can make you depressed, which leads to negative thoughts. In many cases, depression can be caused by negative thinking, itself. ... These distortions are usually used to reinforce negative thinking or emotions.

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Negativity feeds on fear and anxiety. As a result, focus on the things you want to do and imagine yourself doing them. Push out the fear and the anxiety and instead, imagine t...more
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This is OCD.
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Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. I suggest you to consult a psychiatrist in person. We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. We will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. I suggest you to consult a psychologist for counseling. We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. We will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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Hi, I am a mother of 12 years old daughter she is in 7th std. She is in love with 14 years old boy he is in 9th std. Now a days she is spending time in listening music and chatting instead of her studies. She says at night night she does not like sleeping .In morning she does not want to wake up missing school .She does not want to study I have taken all necessary action to make her understand but she does not pay any attention on my words. I scolded her then she becomes aggressive and said I leave home and all. 12 years old girl saying she will leave home I am scared how can I handle the situation before it becomes worst. Please suggest what can I do. How can I make her understand the importance of the studies as she is far away from studies. She has a very careless attitude towards her studies upto an extent that me and her teachers are so damn frustrated of her. She doesn't study at all. She does not want to study but finishes her homework or CW. She knows how to manipulate everyone. Sometimes she behaves like she has a criminal mind like she becomes very aggressive. She keeps on lying every now and then. It's like her daily habit. In morning I have to shout on her to go to school. I have tried given her perks like if you will perform well and listen to me then I will get so and so things for you. I have also tried to emotionally show him that because of her such behavior I am so upset. I showed her so much love and requested to behave, as we are only putting efforts for her good. Etc etc I have put in all the kind of efforts that I can but seems like she is a stone or such a shameful child that nothing matters to her. I don't know how to tackle her anymore, looks like I have given up. Day by day I am going into depression. It looks like I am a fail parent. Can anybody please suggest what should I do now to tackle a child like her? Thanks.

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It's due to hormonal changes so it's need to counciling both of you, so you can counslt with us by taking appointment.
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Hi, I'm a house wife. My husband is addicted to the phone. And we have understanding issues. I feel like m emotionally dependant on him. I do so many things for him on bed In turn this makes him sleep not sexually active. He is lazy. He doesn't admire me intern laugh at me. I feel the main reason behind this is good. He has a very possessive mother mainly mummas boy. He comes late to the room and falls asleep. I feel that my expectations are hurt. I am very emotionally dependant on him. I think this is my problem. I keep thinking about him since m idle. He comes from office I expect him to spend time with me intern I find him with the phone and in front of the TV watching debates. Its been 10 months we got married. I still didn't get thoughts of having a kid because of all these issues. The main issue is I wanted to marry a guy working in abroad, he was working in abroad but got transferred here after marriage unfortunately now he is here. My in laws mind me alot this is so disturbing. My husband is always parents oriented he sleeps only after they sleep. He is addicted to movies always watch movies on weekends and I would plan something for him on bed he would either sleep or doesn't enjoy what I do. When he comes from office I find him glued to the sofa with the phone. He leaves by 9.30 and comes home by 8 pm. He doesn't move from the sofa. He then watches debates on TV. At times I make him feel relaxed on bed by Strip tease, blowjob and I massage his whole body with oil sometimes only his private part. With candle light lit around to make him feel soothing. The reaction to this is he sleeps. He told me a few things that He feels lazy to continue He feels lazy to take bath the next day. I mean head bath He gets disturbed when it's getting late (after 12 am) .so he doesn't feel like having sex. The worst part is he never asked me anything till now. I do it by myself with so much interest I am feeling shy that as a girl I do it. I think I overdo it. He never asked me even once for a blowjob since 10 months of our marriage. He sleeps off all the time. At night we ll be lying on bed I start with my hand I find him asleep in a few min. Nowadays I stopped. What I wonder alot is. I am everything to him what a man would actually desire. More than what is on porn I can say. I do so much for him. It's not just stripteasing, it would be a dance to, And lastly he has a problem if we have contact on a day the next days at times not always I feel like having he shouts at me. Or if I ask two three days later he says we just had a few days ago now what. I don't get sleep Normally I feel disturbed and keep asking him whether he is awake or he slept and irritate him. He laughs at me. At times ,Saying y r you moving like that when I am teasing him. He laughs when I make noises during sex. Nowadays when I give him a blowjob or when I am over him wearing a night dress I don't find him looking at me. I find him looking at the wall in a deep thought. Past few times we did. There was a problem His penis was erect for a minute then It got down it took so much time for him to make it hard and finally it didn't .for which I did not get upset in turn I cheered him up saying its on no problem. I have see his past history. When he was a bachelor lot of porn And he has many girls as friends. He is very handsome very fair. So many girls admire him. I am very emotionally dependant on him and he takes advantage of that. I did not know I'll end up loving someone this much that I would consult a psychologist. Last thing doctor. I remember when ever I used to come to my mother's house and stay. When I go back I check his phone and found porn in history what shocked me was I am more than what is there. I was shocked I asked him. I did not scold him and all. Finally now I don't find but I get restless when. I leave him alone. His last seen at 3 am makes me feel a bit upset. It's incognito mode I feel. As far as I know he used to watch when he was a bachelor and now only when I come to my mother's house I think he watches. He is very attached to his mother. Actually he was in abroad I was happy seeing that I got married but now he is here and doesn't seem like going back .his parents are the main cause. Now too after coming back from office he never comes to the room because of his mother he feels what she ll think. Whether she is alone sitting in the hall. He ll everyday go talk to the mother nicely then only come inside the room. Mother is very possessive. If we go out together she has a change in her behavior. I had faced a lot of possessiveness from her side went through depression first few months now know how to tackle her. I would like to know what is the problem. How should I behave.

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It is a common problem among men in the present times. There are many Psychological factors like anxiety, guilt or depression can also be the cause of premature ejaculation.
First of all start eating a healthy diet like green vegetables like spinach, cabbage, kale etc contribute in male enhancement. Also citrus fruits like avocado, orange, and lemon that are rich in Vitamin B9. Avoid junk foods, smoking, alcohol consumption, avoid dairy products and sour items. Try some tips like think about...more
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Sir, As I mentioned in my query, I feel my wife is having some abnormal behavior. She is too possessive and takes everything negatively. I'll give you an example of possessiveness. She cannot tolerate even if my Son moves closely with me. She even cannot tolerate if I call my sister or someone as Amma, as other than my Mom, I used to call my wife as Amma. She feels I'm giving more respect/love to those people. She cannot even tolerate if some girl/lady comes and asks me address or some info. When we are at public places. No lady should talk to me, unless until she is either my Mom/Sister/Close relative. Even she will not tolerate if her sister talks to me. She cannot tolerate if my Son moves closely with her or my parents as well. She gets irritated and frustrated if he is moving closely with them. Because of that reason, she restricts me and my son to go to my home town. Every time when we have to go to my hometown she creates a very big scene saying why we should go to our hometown. And she denies every time. By saying something I'll make her to come. I should not watch tv/movie when a beautiful lady on the screen. I should not praise the actor or someone in front of her. I should not talk to any other lady other than my family members and that too in a limited fashion. I am thinking about myself as well as about my son. Because my son is a 5 year old, how much pressure he might be feeling by seeing such abnormal behavior in his Mom's face and activities. She cannot tolerate if he says I cannot eat and shouts like anything. She gets irritated for silly and unwanted reasons. Even she finds faults in every other person in the world. She feels every woman other than her are characterless and doubts everyone. After reading all these facts, please advise me what to do Sir. Please please please. Even I cannot tolerate this kind of nature for long time.

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Psychiatrist•Chennai
Your wife serious problems her personality, more likely paranoid personality disorder. Consult a psychiatrist and seek remedy.
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Psychologist•Palakkad
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Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. I suggest you to consult a psychologist online for assessment. We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. We will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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