I am 40 years old female. 15-20 days back, I got a lump in my eye lid thought it was a stye. Then I showed it to the eye doctor and he said it is a chalazion. And I need a surgery. It is not that big and has no pain. But my eyes are little red. I didn't use the medicine he gave me as the eye drops irritated my eyes. I started using hot compressions, wash eye lid with baby shampoo and light massage downwards which has brought some changes in the cyst. I am very depressed because of the surgery thing. Pls help.